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The Life Coach School Podcast

#538: Weekly 2

The Life Coach School Podcast

Brooke Castillo

Education, Entrepreneurship, Business, Self-improvement

4.89.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 October 2025

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Unnecessary suffering is at the heart of what separates those who thrive from those who just survive.

 

Our brain has become an expert at creating pain where none needs to exist.

 

Layering emotional turmoil on top of life's natural challenges and preventing us from achieving what we're truly capable of.

 

In this second part of the Weekly series, I'm breaking down the core principles of coaching and how understanding your brain's motivational triad can fundamentally transform your relationship with success, pain, and achievement.


 

Join me in The Weekly in 2026. You can sign up right now by going to  TheLifeCoachSchool.com/theweekly.

 

What You Will Discover:

 

  • How your brain's survival mechanism creates unnecessary suffering on top of life's natural challenges.
  • Why the motivational triad (seeking pleasure, avoiding pain, conserving energy) keeps you stuck in mediocrity.
  • The five components of the self-coaching model that govern everything in your life.
  • What happens in your brain when you set an impossible goal and why it immediately creates resistance.
  • How weekly repetition and coaching can rewire negative thinking patterns permanently.
  • The difference between clean pain (necessary) and dirty pain (optional) in your emotional life.

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Oh, hey there. And welcome to the weekly part two. So if you haven't listened to the weekly part one,

0:11.2

I highly recommend that you listen to that first. In that part one, I tell you about a new program

0:16.9

that I'm introducing called the weekly. I tell you about the concepts, the ideas, and why the

0:22.1

weekly is really important for coaching and self-management and self-care and self-coaching.

0:27.7

And I invite you to join me in 2026 to my weekly program based on the reasons why I created it

0:34.1

just for you. So in this session, I want to talk about coaching. I want to talk about

0:41.1

its exquisiteness of what it offers. The first overall concept that people who have

0:47.7

coaching understand differently from people who don't is how optional unnecessary suffering is. So if you think about your life,

0:56.9

if you think about there's happiness and there's joy and there's greatness and there's also pain

1:03.6

and there's struggle and there's frustration. And that's normal. Perfect. That's a beautiful life.

1:09.4

But so many humans layer on top of that,

1:13.9

that yin and yang of life, positive and negative life, so many people layer on top of that

1:19.4

unnecessary suffering. Suffering that wrecks you emotionally and prevents you from achieving,

1:26.2

prevents you from evolving and can, if you let it

1:28.9

ruin your relationships. And so that piece, I think, is my mantra. That's my goal is to help people,

1:37.7

humans, reduce unnecessary suffering by using the tools of life coaching. And in order to do this, you have to truly understand that

1:46.7

suffering can only be caused and created in the mind, in the brain. Consciousness is what creates

1:56.9

suffering. Now, consciousness is also what creates your life. It creates your joy. It creates all of

2:04.6

your pleasure, all of it, right? But when you have consciousness, you have the ability, the skill,

2:10.6

the habit of creating unnecessary suffering. And the reason this is, is because of the way that we've evolved, because of the

2:20.4

way that our brains have evolved. And the most important thing to the brain will always be and

2:29.0

always has been survival. Now, this isn't a bad thing, right? We want to survive. We want to maintain

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