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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9935 Ratings

🗓️ 24 June 2025

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Today we're tackling a question from one of our Supercast subscribers about equity in multiple relationships, feel prioritized, and how to handle tough conversations about energy, money, and mismatched desire in relationships. Become one of our Supercast subscribers at multiamory.com/join to get your question answered on a future Q&A episode! Join Dedeker and Orit Krug for our polyamory somatic retreat in northern Spain (September 22-25, 2025) - sliding scale pricing available, use code MULTI when you apply at www.multiamory.com/retreat. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack. Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand. Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello, multiamery folks and friends. Let's go to Spain together. That's right, Orit Krug and I are hosting a

0:07.2

somatic retreat, especially for polyamorous folks that's going to be in beautiful northern Spain

0:13.2

from September 22nd to the 25th, 2025. We're going to be spending four days together in a beautiful

0:20.6

natural setting, and Orit and I are going to guide you through somatic practices that can help shift long-held patterns and help you develop some powerful tools for navigating non-monogamy with more ease and confidence.

0:34.0

We handle all the details so that you can be fully present. Your accommodations are taken care of. You don't have to clean or cook. All your meals are taken care of. We really want people to feel as cared for as possible. You're welcome to come solo or to bring a partner or to bring all of your partners. Everybody is welcome. We also offer sliding scale pricing, and if

0:55.9

cost is a concern for you, please don't let that stop you from applying. We're happy to explore

1:00.3

options that work for you and for your financial situation. So we already have people signing up

1:06.7

for this one, which is nuts. We do have limited spots. So if you're interested, go to

1:11.9

multi-amory.com slash retreat. To apply today, mention the Multiamary podcast when you apply. Again,

1:18.4

that's multi-amry.com slash retreat. And I hope that I can see you in Spain.

1:27.1

Money is emotional. And so being able to talk more frankly about it is i still believe very

1:33.3

important but you do have to be careful with those conversations because that shit's implanted

1:38.7

so deep in us to feel whatever kind of shame or expectations or something.

1:44.3

And also to realize that the amount of money someone makes is not the whole story either.

1:48.5

You know, when Dedeker and I met, we both were not making very much money.

1:52.7

And I also had quite a bit of debt from having not made money for quite a while

1:56.7

while living in an expensive city of LA.

1:58.7

And so then even later, as I started to make more money, still I was having to put a lot

2:04.7

of that toward paying down that debt versus someone who might have been making less than me

2:09.7

but didn't have any debt.

2:10.9

There's a lot of other factors that go on there as well.

2:14.1

So it's not just so simple as how much you're making, but being able to be more

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