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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

536 - Finding Your Voice: Navigating Control and Taking Back Your Power in Relationships

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9935 Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2025

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to part one of our deep dive into control in relationships! Every relationship has power dynamics, but when they get out of control it can be devastating. In this episode, we'll be discussing the experience of loss of control in a relationship, why it might happen, and what to do if you find yourself on this end of the control spectrum. Join Dedeker and Orit Krug for our polyamory somatic retreat in northern Spain (September 22-25, 2025) - sliding scale pricing available, use code MULTI when you apply at www.multiamory.com/retreat. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello, multiamery folks and friends. Let's go to Spain together. That's right, Orit Krug and I are hosting a

0:07.2

somatic retreat, especially for polyamorous folks that's going to be in beautiful northern Spain

0:13.2

from September 22nd to the 25th, 2025. We're going to be spending four days together in a beautiful

0:20.6

natural setting, and Orit and I are going to guide you through somatic practices that can help shift long-held patterns and help you develop some powerful tools for navigating non-monogamy with more ease and confidence.

0:34.0

We handle all the details so that you can be fully present. Your accommodations are taken care of. You don't have to clean or cook. All your meals are taken care of. We really want people to feel as cared for as possible. You're welcome to come solo or to bring a partner or to bring all of your partners. Everybody is welcome. We also offer sliding scale pricing, and if

0:55.9

cost is a concern for you, please don't let that stop you from applying. We're happy to explore

1:00.3

options that work for you and for your financial situation. So we already have people signing up

1:06.7

for this one, which is nuts. We do have limited spots. So if you're interested, go to

1:11.9

multi-amory.com slash retreat. To apply today, mention the Multiamary podcast when you apply. Again,

1:18.2

that's multi-amry.com slash retreat. And I hope that I can see you in Spain.

1:27.2

Also working to understand the transient nature of everything, including relationships,

1:33.7

which can help me really care for them in the moment and cultivate them when I'm in them,

1:38.9

but also not let them become the majority of my identity, because I do think that it's so easy to get in

1:45.0

these situations where you're controlled by an individual also simply because your relationship

1:51.7

with them represents the majority of who you are. And I think that this is even true in non-monogamy,

1:57.2

for instance, that non-monogamy kind of becomes your whole identity.

2:02.0

And I think it's really important to realize that there are so many things that make up the

2:07.2

core of who a person is, not just one individual or multiple individuals that you are in

2:13.2

relationship with.

2:15.5

Welcome to the Multi-Amory podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily. And I'mary podcast. I'm Jace.

2:19.5

I'm Emily. And I'm Dedeker.

2:21.9

We believe in looking to the future of relationships,

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