Hello, multiamery folks and friends. Let's go to Spain together. That's right, Orit Krug and I are hosting a

somatic retreat, especially for polyamorous folks that's going to be in beautiful northern Spain

from September 22nd to the 25th, 2025. We're going to be spending four days together in a beautiful

natural setting, and Orit and I are going to guide you through somatic practices that can help shift long-held patterns and help you develop some powerful tools for navigating non-monogamy with more ease and confidence.

We handle all the details so that you can be fully present. Your accommodations are taken care of. You don't have to clean or cook. All your meals are taken care of. We really want people to feel as cared for as possible. You're welcome to come solo or to bring a partner or to bring all of your partners. Everybody is welcome. We also offer sliding scale pricing, and if

cost is a concern for you, please don't let that stop you from applying. We're happy to explore

options that work for you and for your financial situation. So we already have people signing up

for this one, which is nuts. We do have limited spots. So if you're interested, go to

multi-amory.com slash retreat. To apply today, mention the Multiamary podcast when you apply. Again,

that's multi-amory.com slash retreat. And I hope that I can see you in Spain.

I think we also think that apps are like the silver bullet and they're designed to like give us our soulmates, like hand select them for us, instead of just looking at it as an intro.

And we see people getting so mad at apps if they're not getting like the right matches.

But if we go back to the bar analogy, would you ever get angry at the bar if you went there

and didn't meet like good people?

You would never do that.

So I think the expectation of apps is wildly off.

And you know, like some of the traps that we think that people are falling for, one of them

is this notion of expectation of love on demand.

That we live in this world where everything happens instantaneously.

And we think that we can order our soulmate like something on Amazon.

And if we go into apps with that expectation, like it's never going to work out.

Welcome to the Multi-Amory podcast. I'm Jace. Welcome to the Multiamery podcast.

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