Broken-hearted, feeling like the world is over, convinced you'll never meet anyone else.

Trina's breakup boost will help heal your heart and get you back in the dating saddle.

She'll give you straightforward opinions and advice for your love life.

The topic of today's episode is, let them go.

When people break up, things can be really terrible, you know, but then the next thing you

know, the person is desperate to get the other person back, the person who hurt them so

badly or did them so wrong.

And I'm really hoping to reach out to you who are going through this so that you can, you know, take a step back and take off those rose-colored glasses and stop making excuses for the other person. For example, I'll hear things like, they broke up with me because they say that they're no

longer in love with me. They broke up with me because they found someone else. They broke up

with me because they don't have time for a relationship right now. They broke up with me because

they have too much going on. They broke up with me because they're scared of commitment.

They broke up with me because they got cheated on five or ten years ago and they have their walls built up.

And then the next sentence is often,

I'm still talking to them, we text every day, I'm still seeing them all the time,

I'm still sleeping with them.

So they straight up told you they don't want to be with you.

There was someone else. They say they're too busy for a relationship. They're scared of commitment,

you know, because they had a terrible ex. They have their walls up and so forth.

Oh, but by some miracle, they're still able to have you around when they want.

Call in text you when they want.

Sleep with you when they want.

Do you see what I'm getting at?

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