My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nel Lache, Love Edition coach and

Trauma Specialist. Let's begin.

Hey ladies and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. So I have went through six renditions of this actual podcast episode.

I have re-recorded this intro three times

Yeah, I think three times

I have

obsessed over whether or not this is going to be healthy and healing for y'all.

Y'all have been on my mind. I don't take it for granted that I lead a community of women in their healing process.

And I want to show up right for you. I want to show up in a way that

actually moves you forward and takes into account what you need.

So if you haven't already guessed from the tone,

we're not talking about dating

and relationships this week.

That is not the appropriate thing for us to talk about this week, but I will be using how I teach in a way as an analogy of a way of looking at this to kind of keep the essence of what I

teach here of Black Girls Heel true to form while also respecting and honoring and diving deep into healing this racial trauma and what that looks like.

So you are about to hear an episode that I recorded

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