#527 Why Friendship, not Romance, is the Greatest Love of All
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 22 July 2024
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
Have we lost our vision for loving relationships outside the context of marriage and the nuclear family? What was the greatest love Jesus described in the Bible? Was it romantic love, or a different type of sacrificial love?
Rebecca McLaughlin joins Juli to explain how we’ve minimized friendship and overemphasized sexual relationships.
Guest: Rebecca McLaughlin
Rebecca’s Website: rebeccamclaughlin.org
Rebecca’s Instagram: @rebecc_mclaugh
Book: “No Greater Love” by Rebecca McLaughlin
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| 0:00.0 | Hey friend, welcome to another episode of Job with Julie. I am Julie Slattery, and I want to remind you that this podcast is an outreach of authentic intimacy, which is a ministry helping people make sense of God and sexuality. |
| 0:15.4 | Well, today we are going to talk about the importance of friendship. You know, in our world, there's a lot of emphasis on love, |
| 0:22.7 | on romance, even on marriage, particularly within Christian communities. But there's very little |
| 0:28.5 | emphasis on friendship. My guest today, Rebecca McLaughlin, is going to talk about how we tend to |
| 0:35.8 | see friendship as optional and marriage as necessary. |
| 0:40.5 | But in reality, if we look at the scripture, it says it's the opposite. |
| 0:44.2 | That friendship is absolutely essential, how we love each other, and marriage is optional. |
| 0:49.6 | So it's a different take that challenged me. |
| 0:53.3 | You might recognize that name, Rebecca McLaughlin. |
| 0:55.9 | She has been on this podcast before. |
| 0:58.3 | She's the author of a few books, including the secular creed, and the book that we're |
| 1:03.0 | going to be talking about today called No Greater Love. |
| 1:06.0 | This is a fun topic. |
| 1:08.2 | It's challenging. |
| 1:09.6 | I loved unpacking it with Rebecca, and I think you like listening |
| 1:12.8 | to it. So grab your Java, and here's my conversation with Rebecca. All right, Rebecca, we've |
| 1:20.5 | been waiting to do this podcast recording for a while now, so I'm glad we actually get to do it. |
| 1:25.3 | We've had a few run-ins and now we get to talk about |
| 1:28.4 | friendship. It's been like a series of unfortunate events where I keep thinking it's a good time and |
| 1:33.7 | then suddenly like a child gets sick or something. No, hey, I know that. And I just was like a little bit |
| 1:40.1 | relentless. Like we're not going to give up on this. This is such an important conversation. |
| 1:44.0 | And I feel like on job with Julie at our ministry, relentless, like we're not going to give up on this. This is such an important conversation. |
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