#228 (Bonus) Intimacy After Infidelity
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 29 July 2024
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
In this special re-release, Troy and Melissa Haas of HopeQuest join Juli to answer the question: Can a couple’s sexual relationship survive and thrive after infidelity?
While they were serving as missionaries, Troy’s long-term addiction to pornography was revealed. As hard as this was on their marriage, Melissa soon realized she had her own issues around sexuality too.
They join Juli to tell her what was wrong, and how God helped them heal and find restoration.
Guests: Troy and Melissa Haas
Instagram: @hopequestgroup
Website: hopequestgroup.org
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| 0:00.0 | Hey friend, welcome back to Job with Julie. I am Julie Slattery and this podcast is an outreach of authentic intimacy. |
| 0:09.5 | It's listener supported, so we appreciate your support to our ministry, authentic intimacy. |
| 0:14.7 | Well, today's episode is actually a re-release of a conversation that I recorded a few years ago with Troy and Melissa |
| 0:22.7 | Haas. And it's an episode I think many of us need to hear because there are elements of the |
| 0:28.3 | story that I think every single one of us can relate to. I also wanted to introduce you to |
| 0:34.3 | Troy and Melissa because they will be speaking at our reclaim conference here in |
| 0:38.7 | Cleveland on October 18th and 19th, which I'll talk about a little bit more later. |
| 0:44.0 | Troy and Melissa were serving as missionaries when Troy's long-term addiction to pornography was |
| 0:50.2 | exposed right out into the open. Now, Melissa was not the one with his secret behavior. |
| 0:55.6 | And on the recovery journey, she soon realized that she had a lot of work to do in her |
| 1:00.9 | own understanding of sexuality and healing. |
| 1:03.8 | And now Troy and Melissa run a ministry that helps individuals and couples through this |
| 1:09.2 | journey. |
| 1:10.2 | This is a practical and honest conversation that I think is going to really bless you. |
| 1:15.4 | So grab your Java, find a comfy seat, and tune into my conversation with Troy and Melissa Haas. |
| 1:23.4 | You run a ministry that it addresses addiction, particularly sexual addiction, but also other kinds of addiction. |
| 1:30.6 | Yes. |
| 1:31.2 | Yeah. |
| 1:31.5 | And you were telling me a little bit about it that you've got a residential component, but you also have support groups that help people that are just trying to struggle through. |
| 1:40.8 | What does addiction look like in my marriage? |
| 1:43.4 | Absolutely. |
| 1:45.5 | Absolutely. At HopeQuest, |
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