526-How to Get Her In the Mood (& Turn Her On) [Re-Release]
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 20 March 2026
⏱️ 20 minutes
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526-How to Get Her In the Mood (& Turn Her On) [Re-Release]
I think all the wives will want their husbands to listen to this one.
Because I have the good fortune of working with men every (work) day and hearing their unfiltered thoughts about intimacy…
I can help you understand why your wife often rejects you.
One of the major truths is that it's SCARY to initiate sex with your wife.
So, you probably do…
But in general, it's a half-invested way, in hopes that her rejection won't feel so painful. Because from experience it has been rejected, even your best attempts.
Fast forward to today.
Now, because a husband's attempt at enticing his wife to make love is so "inadequate" for fear of rejection.
(Jfyi "inadequate" was the thesaurus's replacement for "lame" )
For this reason, the wife naturally would reject it.
But what if we took the fear out of this exchange entirely?
And your enticing her towards intimacy was filling for her and could even be successful!?
AND you're not full of fear.
Is that even possible?
I think with these insights, you will be well on your way.
to invite a wife–who is never in the mood–
to be in the mood!
[Original Release Date: October 8th, 2021]
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Before MR, miscommunication and emotional distance were our normal. We argued often, and a deep sense of distrust had taken root, largely because I had failed to make our marriage a true priority...The ongoing conflict left me carrying a constant weight of guilt while doing ministry on campus, knowing things at home were not going well...[After MR], I've come to realize that the problem began with me and was fueled by my own selfishness...Shifting from arguing nearly every day—or at least every other day—to having only a handful of disagreements in the past six months has brought a new sense of stability and peace to our home...I now feel equipped with the tools to continue moving our marriage forward.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.6 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. Delight your marriage. |
| 0:21.4 | Hi there and welcome. |
| 0:23.6 | I want to thank you for joining me. |
| 0:25.6 | If you're new to the podcast, this is the space that we talk about sex and we talk about it specifically. |
| 0:32.4 | And we talk about the human heart and the way God has designed us men super duper differently than women and |
| 0:41.4 | I have the privilege of working with men and I have the privilege of working with women separately |
| 0:47.1 | because I think each side needs to be trained to love the other well and that's a very biblical concept in Titus too. |
| 0:57.7 | It talks about older women, teach the younger women how to love their husbands. And it talks about |
| 1:03.6 | in another part of scripture of husbands, approach your wives in an understanding way. |
| 1:11.5 | How do you understand your wife? |
| 1:13.7 | Well, that's the whole goal of this episode and so many of my resources. |
| 1:19.7 | So, all right, let's dive into today's very important topic. |
| 1:34.2 | Okay. important topic. Okay, I am going to direct this episode at a husband. |
| 1:41.0 | You are very direct, and that benefits you in so many areas of life, so many areas, like your job, |
| 1:50.5 | your work, your approach to certain tasks, you just go straight for it and you get it accomplished |
| 1:58.2 | and you absolutely attack that problem and you fix it or you go |
| 2:05.2 | straight to the issue with the car not working and you figure out the problem and you complete it |
| 2:13.7 | and that is not how your wife works. So let's say you have some sex experts call it |
| 2:26.1 | spontaneous desire. And it's this idea of just because God made you a man and you have about 11 erections day and they're |
| 2:37.7 | very healthy and normal and some whether it's a morning erection or a random erection or a reflex of |
| 2:47.4 | erection or a psychosomatic erection, any of those. |
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