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Three, two, one.

If a sexual partner told you that they had always fantasized about you hurting them, do

you think that you would do it?

Yeah, and I have, but they'd have to specify what type of pain they're after.

They can't just be like, hurt me, and then I'll be like, oh, now I understand why

your mother never hugged you, and what they actually meant was like, like, spanking.

That's not what I meant.

What about you, Julia?

I also, yes, I also would, if a partner asked.

But I've learned that although I'm happy to try lots of things, I definitely have limits.

So a partner when I was younger asked me to do blood play with him, I learned that even

the thought of piercing someone's skin to intentionally make them bleed was out of my

comfort zone.

I've never done blood play unless I'm in sex on your period counts.

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