My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by

whatever means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow in your self work.

I'm She Nel Lache, Love Edition Coach and Trauma Specialist.

Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to this day. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. Some of you recognize our intro music from a previous podcast that I used to host called Love Junkie and I have brought that

intro back because I missed the music. I liked it a lot better than our current

intro and also we're kind of returning back to our roots a little bit.

We're going to be digging all into intimacy disorders and attachment and how we form relationships.

And so I thought it would be fitting for us to have our own homecoming because the week that this is published is actually the same week that Beyonce put out her homecoming,

Homecoming Coachella documentary, which I loved.

I watched it when it first happened a year ago in all of the videos and all of the copies last year and then I watched it again this year.

I said if it was brand new to me, cried a couple tears, you know, I am that person and so just wanted to just bring a full circle as much as I could in my own little world.

So at Black Girls Hill is my mission to help you as women have healthy

relationships by way of inner healing because it is my belief is my experience

is what I've seen and studied that we just continue to recreate the same

unhealthy emotional patterns until we break the cycles, until we unlearned them, and until

we get at the inner route that all this grew from.

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