5 Ways To Navigate Differences & Build a Stronger Marriage, #603
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 13 April 2026
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
One of you is ready to leave early. The other is still looking for their shoes. Welcome to marriage.
This week, Juli and Mike are on stage at the Love Like You Mean It Cruise! Live and unfiltered, they talk honestly about how their differences have shown up in parenting, intimacy, and their pace of life—and how they've learned to let those differences draw them closer, instead of driving them apart.
Guest: Mike Slattery
Join Mike & Juli on the Love Like You Mean It Cruise in 2027!
Follow-up Resources:
3 Reasons Women Tend to Take Over in Marriage by Juli Slattery (blog)
Q&A: How can I help my husband grow up and take responsibility? (video)
The Very Important Difference Between Conflict & Fighting by Juli Slattery (blog)
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey guys, welcome to Job with Julie. I am Julie Slattery, and this podcast is an outreach of authentic |
| 0:08.4 | and agency, a ministry dedicated to helping people make sense of God and sexuality. |
| 0:14.1 | Well, today's a little bit different. I think it's really fun. You're about to hear a live recording |
| 0:19.9 | from the family life, love like you mean |
| 0:22.8 | at marriage cruise, where my husband Mike and I had the opportunity to speak to a room filled with |
| 0:28.5 | couples, just like you, who are navigating both the good and the hard things in marriage. |
| 0:34.3 | So in this talk, we open up about our more than 30 years of marriage, how vastly |
| 0:39.4 | different we are and how those differences have created tension, but ultimately how God has |
| 0:44.8 | taught us to let those differences actually strengthen our relationship rather than divide us. |
| 0:50.9 | You're going to hear some very personal stories about parenting, communication struggles, |
| 0:55.9 | to differences in our personalities, expectations, and even sexual intimacy. And just a heads |
| 1:01.8 | up, my husband, Mike, is funny. If you don't know him, he brings his usual humor and spontaneity |
| 1:08.2 | to the conversation. So you're going to hear those differences of me even trying to keep them back on track a few |
| 1:14.2 | times. |
| 1:15.0 | If you want to know more about the Love Like You Minute Cruise and maybe even join us in |
| 1:19.8 | 27, you can look for that link in our show notes or head to Lovelikeumitcruise.com. |
| 1:28.3 | Okay, so Mike and I have been married for almost 32 years. |
| 1:32.5 | Yes, yes. |
| 1:33.0 | Yeah, that's amazing. |
| 1:36.5 | And when we got married, we were so different. |
| 1:42.1 | And you know what, 32 years later, we're still so different. We have different |
| 1:47.2 | approaches to anything. I think the only thing we agree on is God and pickleball. We can't, I mean, |
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