5. The Needy One
Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast
Ali Jackson
3.9 • 712 Ratings
🗓️ 22 March 2021
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
"If he wanted to, he would" - sound familiar? Spoiler alert: Ali & Roark do not approve this message. They debunk this dating myth and rewrite the common phrase to put the focus on communication and understanding your own needs. But first, Ali confesses she had yet another phone-throwing moment (reset the incident clock!) this week. And the girls analyze a perfect example of "if he wanted to, he would" in the Bravo show Summer House.
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| 0:00.0 | I understand because it doesn't matter if you're not looking at the camera for this part because we're not going to use it for video. |
| 0:06.6 | I was only thinking about myself, but you're here too. |
| 0:13.0 | That's really funny. |
| 0:14.3 | Okay. |
| 0:16.1 | I'm on board. |
| 0:17.4 | I also want to use that as the bumper. |
| 0:35.8 | Hello and welcome to another episode of Finding Mr. Right the podcast. I'm Allie, back with my co-host, Rourke. |
| 0:38.8 | How you doing? I'm good. I'm really happy to be here with you. I think I want to start with that type of positivity that this is really making |
| 0:44.1 | my night to have this to look forward to. Oh, me too. Yeah. And for me today, it's because I had a bit |
| 0:51.4 | of a rough day. I, as you know, as I said last week, I am going |
| 0:55.4 | through the egg freezing process and you have to do these hormone injections where they want |
| 1:00.6 | your body to respond in a certain way to them. And so you go in for all this testing and to make |
| 1:06.2 | sure that it's on track. And basically the results I got today said that I was on a slower track than they would |
| 1:12.5 | like. It's not like bad, but it just was disappointing and frustrating to hear that my body |
| 1:20.4 | isn't doing what it's supposed to. And it upset me a lot, probably more than it should have, |
| 1:25.3 | but I was in a bad mood today and I really had talking to you and looking forward to this really brought my night to a very happy place. So vulnerable moment, but feeling good now. Well, I'm glad you're feeling good now. But I also think I'm, you know, sorry to hear that that happened today. And I also think that you are allowed to be upset about |
| 1:44.3 | that. Thanks. Yeah. No, I definitely, I gave myself a lot of grace. I laid in bed and did cry for a |
| 1:50.1 | little bit. I'm being fully honest. You know I love a lay in bed and cry moment. Exactly. |
| 1:55.7 | You got to do it sometimes. And so I had that and I then, you know, I actually thought a lot about the fact that I'm very |
| 2:04.4 | fortunate that I'm having this sort of upset feeling while I am very lucky to be doing basically an |
| 2:10.4 | insurance policy. And it made me feel very empathetic to people who are literally trying to start |
| 2:16.1 | a family with this process and like how |
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