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Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

4. The Disappearing One

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

Ali Jackson

Relationships, Society & Culture

3.9712 Ratings

🗓️ 15 March 2021

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Boo! Don't worry, this podcast isn't disappearing, but Ali and Roark are talking about men who did! Ghosting. One of the most common problems facing modern dating. First, Ali and Roark define what is and what isn't a ghost. Then, they share stories of times they were ghosted, and Ali reveals her tried-and-true "text script" for how to maturely confront a ghost. Finally, they admit that they, too, have been the ghosters. But Finding Mr. Height is a firmly anti-ghosting podcast, so Ali shares another text script: how to tell someone you're not interested rather than disappear. Spooky stuff!

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0:00.0

And then in very small letters, like squeezed in at the bottom as if he had realized like,

0:05.2

I should probably say something else.

0:07.1

It said, P.S., sorry about last summer.

0:09.7

I was in a bad place.

0:11.0

You're a great person, and your salmon is amazing.

0:14.8

What?

0:16.4

Why about the salmon?

0:18.6

Like, I thought that he ghosted me because I made shitty salmon.

0:34.6

Hello, and welcome to another episode of Finding Mr. Haight the podcast. I'm Allie. I'm back with my co-host, Rourke. How are you?

0:41.3

I'm great. I am out of Los Angeles for a little bit. I am staying with my parents right now because I am actually freezing my eggs.

0:51.1

So, you know, not even two seconds in and you know a lot about me. We're just diving right

0:56.9

into your ovaries is what we're doing. Exactly. There are a lot of people looking at my ovaries right now.

1:03.5

Well, as you know, I am going to be going through egg freezing myself later this year. So we'll

1:08.3

definitely have to circle back on that because I'm excited to dive into that together. Yeah, absolutely. I am completely open to discussing it. I think the more women

1:17.0

talk about sort of this type of fertility stuff, like I think the better. I think having these

1:23.4

open dialogues is really important. And so I think that we should be a part of that. I totally agree.

1:29.8

But yeah, besides that, life is good. It's fun, you know, it's always funny to be staying with

1:34.2

your parents. I actually listened to our Monday episode with my mom. Where we talked extensively

1:41.5

about your mom. Exactly. Where we talked about how it can be like what it's like to talk to parents about dating.

1:49.1

And so we had a couple of funny conversations.

1:51.4

So before she even heard the episode, she asked me where I met or how, like which app I'd met the cyclist on.

2:00.2

And which quick update, we are still conversing

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