5 Super Subtle Signs That a Woman Wants to be Approached by You

The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women

Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men

Dating, Seduction, Masculinity, Girlfriend, Women, Pua, Masculine, Education, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Nlp, Girls, Attraction, Self-improvement

4.8 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 18 August 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals the subtle cues women give when they actually want to be approached — cues that most men completely miss. Many guys hesitate, unsure if a woman is interested, but the truth is women are constantly sending signals that say “come talk to me” — if you know how to read them.

Through sharp storytelling, psychological insights, and real-world examples, Mark breaks down five subtle signs women use to invite interaction — from body language to other subtle cues — so you can confidently make your move without fear or guesswork.

Key Takeaways:
- The small, easy-to-miss behaviors that mean she’s open to being approached.
- How to notice cues without overthinking or misreading them.
- How to read body language and conversational hints.
- Why most guys walk away when they actually have a green light.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Intro & What This Episode Will Deliver
[00:03:35] – Women Are Green Lighting You All the Time
[00:04:43] – How Women Will Get In Your Line of Sight
[00:05:33] – Using Body Angle to Demonstrate Interest
[00:07:01] – Women Preen Themselves for Your Attention
[00:09:46] – If They Smile At You, You Can Approach
[00:10:45] – Don’t Break Eye Contact Submissively
[00:13:02] – Mirroring Your Behaviour
[00:14:05] – She’s Being Loud in Your Vicinity
[00:15:24] – Putting Their Back Towards You
[00:17:42] – Maternity: The Waiting Room Experiment

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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Oftentimes my girlfriends will also tell me,
0:02.5	I'll be green lighting a dude. We will make eye contact. I will smile at him. I will give him every opportunity to come up to me. And he still doesn't do it. They're green lighten your asses, but you don't know what the hell is happening and you're failing to approach. Girls are green lighting you all the time, brothers. And a lot of you are listening right now and you're like, no, he's not talking to me.
0:02.3	It can't be like, no, he's not talking to me.
0:23.8	It can't be me, girls are green lighting.
0:25.8	I'm here to tell you, yes, they are, gentlemen.
0:28.7	You are being green lighted.
0:30.9	Girls want you to approach them, you idiot.
0:34.2	So I want you to make a commitment both to yourself as well as to me that
0:38.1	Welcome to the unapologetic man podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement,
0:45.3	confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it.
1:04.3	One of the biggest complaints I hear from my girlfriends is that they will oftentimes green light dudes and the guys will not approach him.
1:28.5	They'll come to me and they'll be like, I saw this guy who was super attracted to and I gave him every green light I could, right? I wanted him to approach me, and he didn't do it. There's two reasons that might be. First of all, he might just be dumb as rocks, not understand that a girl is greenlighting him and just didn't see the signs, which I'm sure has happened to you guys. Or number two, he was too cowardly to approach her. And that happens to you guys too,
1:45.6	right? You don't know what to say. You don't know what to talk about. You just don't want to get rejected. Even when you get those green lights, which I'm sure a lot of you guys do, you don't act on them. And this is what we're going to do in today's episode. I always talk about implementation. So as I tell you these things, I want you guys to pay very close attention because as I alluded to, girls are green lighting you all the time, brothers.
1:52.4	And a lot of you are listening right now and you're like, no, he's not talking to me. It can't be me.
1:57.4	Girls are green lighting. I'm fucking ugly. No girl would ever want me.
2:01.2	I'm here to tell you, yes, they are, gentlemen.
2:03.9	Here's something you may not know, brother.
2:05.9	You are the absolute type of probably tens of thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of girls out there.
2:12.3	And some of you are the absolute type of millions of girls out there.
2:16.9	So can you honestly tell me with a straight
2:19.2	face, no matter how ugly you are, what your ethnicity is, what your height is, what your face looks
2:25.3	like, that no girl has ever green lighted you and you missed it? Come on, brother, don't be delusional.
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