Why Women Really Want Jerks and Not Nice Guys
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 14 August 2025
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing goes deep into why jerks seem to effortlessly attract women and how men can apply those strategies without being a jerk. Mark explains the mindset of a "jerk" and how their behaviors create attraction, offering practical advice on how to be a challenge, avoid neediness, and ultimately get women chasing you.
Mark offers a roadmap to creating attraction with high-quality women while maintaining your integrity and self-respect. He explains how to channel the behaviors of "jerks" into healthy actions that attract the right women without compromising your values.
Key Takeaways:
- How to take extreme ownership of your part in a failing relationship.
- The importance of emotional safety and how to rebuild it with your partner.
- Why fighting clean and being fair during conflicts can change the trajectory of your relationship.
- How to make your relationship a priority and consistently give more than you take.
- Techniques for improving communication, attraction, and your personal development to save your relationship.
Episode Breakdown with Timestamps
[00:00:00] – Intro & What This Episode Will Deliver
[00:03:18] – Social Media: How to Deal With Critics and Haters
[00:07:22] – Don’t Be Easy: The Reasons Why Women Are Drawn to Jerks
[00:08:15] – Keeping Good Girls Interested by Using the 80/100 Rule
[00:08:40] – Attraction Fundamentals: Everybody Wants a Challenge
[00:11:06] – Why Haters are Needy, Roasting Social Media Critics
[00:14:33] – How to Leverage Jerk Traits to Illicit Attraction
[00:16:29] – Being a Hater Will Prevent You from getting Quality Women
[00:18:21] – Steal the Secrets of Jerks, Without Being a Jerk
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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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| 0:00.0 | You guys have seen it. You get these complete assholes who look like absolute scum living in their mom's basement. |
| 0:07.0 | They completely use her. They even cheat on her. And for some reason, these chicks stick around. |
| 0:11.7 | Because essentially, you want to be a good dude, but every time you are a good dude and you treat a woman well, she blows you out. |
| 0:18.9 | Everybody wants a challenge that when you have a guy that comes |
| 0:22.0 | along who truly doesn't give a fuck, she chases that dude. So the real question is, can you be a good |
| 0:28.5 | person and still attract and keep a high quality girl? So the way to make a high quality girl |
| 0:34.4 | fall in love with you and stay with you. Welcome to the unapologetic man podcast. |
| 0:40.5 | The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, |
| 0:45.0 | and being a man without making any apologies for it. |
| 0:53.3 | What is up, gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP, the uniform |
| 0:59.9 | Mike Papa. I got a great one for you today, boys. This one's going to go in a lot of different |
| 1:04.4 | directions, but I hope to give you some good information as to why you should be an asshole |
| 1:08.5 | of women. You need to treat them like crap. You need to be |
| 1:11.1 | completely selfish. Be narcissistic. Do not chase them in any way whatsoever. Be a complete |
| 1:16.8 | dick and you'll get the girl. I mean, it works, right? You guys have seen it. You get these |
| 1:21.5 | complete assholes who look like absolute scum living in their mom's basement, pulling these |
| 1:27.0 | absolute baddies. And these guys |
| 1:28.9 | are just jackasses, man. They look like they should be at the wrong end of a freak show experience. |
| 1:34.1 | They look like they don't have their lives together in any way whatsoever. They don't treat the |
| 1:38.6 | woman well. They completely use her. They even cheat on her. And for some reason, these chicks stick |
| 1:43.5 | around. Have you guys ever had it where you kind of didn't like a girl? Maybe she was a seven. She was kind of like a moped, fun to ride, but you didn't want to be seen with her. So you kept her at arm's length. And then she fell in love with you. Have you noticed that the worst you treat these chicks, the more they seem to get into you. And a lot of you |
| 2:01.6 | guys have moral conundrums about this because you're like, well, I want to be a good dude. I don't |
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