What if I told you that there are five strategic questions that can stop you from marrying the wrong man?

Because the truth is, most women find out a man's character after nikah.

By the end of this episode, you'd have the exact questions that expose a man's character in a very short amount of time,

as opposed to months and months and months of surface level conversation, wasting your time and putting you at risk.

Let's find them out what they are. Let's go.

Welcome to the Mindful Muslim Speaks podcast, a safe space to learn and grow into the best

version of yourself that you're always meant to be. I'm your host, mindful Muslim

mom of five, big sister to the community and a licensed educator with 25 plus years and

supporting tens of thousands of Muslim women

worldwide. Now I'm excited to share a ton of solutions to your problems on love, relationships,

life balance, reconnecting with a less dependent with Aalda, getting back on track and more. So grab a cup of

coffee and close out those tabs. These next 20 to 30 minutes are all about you. Let's get started.

So I was crying in my bathroom yesterday and not the cute kind of crying. The ugly kind of mascara-running-e, heartbreaking type of crying.

A sister named Sarah had called me and she said,

I don't even know who I am anymore.

I look in the mirror and I see everyone else staring back

at me. My mother's worry, my husband's demands and expectations, my kids' endless requests.

But where did I go? Oh, sis, my heart just shattered because we've all been there.

She told me her husband had never raised his voice during the courting stage. But after marriage,

fights her a screaming match. When I asked her a question, she asked him to determine his actual

character, if he had anger issues, anything like that. She looked at me like, never really got into

that. And I'm going to say this to all of you. Ladies, his anger issues are not something that you

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