5. Overcoming Other People’s Opinions
Insource
Ashlie Molstad
4.2 • 940 Ratings
🗓️ 15 December 2022
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
Its a totally normal desire to want to fit in, to desire to be liked. But, its an impossible task to be liked by everyone.
We’ve all got “haters” or people who criticize us, who just don’t like our vibe - whether you’re experiencing it face to face in your life by your family, coworkers, in laws, etc, or because you’re a public figure in some way. I am no stranger to them, in fact I’ve got quite a large fan club of people who watch my every move so they can complain about said moves.
But, I no longer let their opinions of me determine my opinion of myself or what I do. In todays episode I walk you through my gameplay and the steps I take to bring myself back up, when I feel like I’ve been knocked down. 7 simple steps to practice getting back in the game when you’ve been sidelined by the boos.
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| 0:00.0 | I don't know the right or wrong choice for you, but I do know that if you look within and you look at what are my reasons for doing it, you'll know with the right choices. |
| 0:10.0 | And the right choice is always, what makes your light turn on and how can you shine it? |
| 0:14.4 | It will never be dimming yourself. It will never be muting yourself. It will never be showing up as a 50% |
| 0:19.0 | version of you. That will never be the right choice. |
| 0:22.8 | And so if you're asking yourself what is the right or wrong choice, |
| 0:26.8 | instead ask yourself which reasons feel better |
| 0:30.1 | and more true to you. Well, welcome back to the InSours Podcast. Thank you for showing up again this week. |
| 0:49.7 | And just thank you so much for the love. |
| 0:51.8 | I know that there are a lot of people who are recording podcast, |
| 0:55.0 | so you, and also we're all very busy |
| 0:57.8 | and we don't have a lot of time. |
| 0:59.2 | And so when you give your time to me, it means the world. |
| 1:01.9 | And I hope that it is, I will always make sure that it is worth your time. |
| 1:06.5 | So today I have I think this is going to be a really powerful podcast. |
| 1:12.0 | It's something that I get asked a lot. I get a |
| 1:16.8 | DM probably a week from people saying like gosh how do you just not care about what other people think or it'll say |
| 1:25.4 | something sometimes like wow you know you're so brave I wish I could just show up |
| 1:30.7 | as as authentic as you do or whatever |
| 1:33.1 | something along those lines, right? |
| 1:35.0 | And I sort of feel like I have become a little bit |
| 1:41.0 | of the go-to person to be like let me just show up as I am and let people |
| 1:48.8 | think whatever say whatever do whatever and I'm just going to continue being true to me. |
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