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The Angry Therapist Podcast

5 Must Dos If You're Single

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 9 April 2025

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

Today, John dives into the 5 things every single person should do—not just to “survive” singlehood, but to actually thrive in it. He discusses the real work of reclaiming your singlehood, beyond the usual advice of “just love yourself," and breaks down a 7-day challenge designed to help you shift from feeling stuck or heartbroken to feeling grounded, clear, and in charge of your own life. Feeling stuck, heartbroken, or just over the same old patterns? Join 7 Days to Reclaim Your Singlehood— a 7-day, $7 challenge to help you stop spiraling, reconnect with yourself, and build real momentum toward the life (and love) you actually want. Through daily prompts, mantras, and mindset shifts, you'll move from feeling stuck or heartbroken to grounded and empowered. Each day unlocks a new emotional breakthrough: Day 1 – The Mirror: Get honest with yourself and assess where your self-connection stands. Day 2 – I Am Not Lonely, I Am Becoming: Reframe loneliness and see it as part of your transformation. Day 3 – Redefining Self-Care: Strip away the Instagram fluff and find what true, nourishing self-care looks like. Day 4 – Detach to Connect: Identify and interrupt distorted thought patterns holding you back. Day 5 – Fuck It Friday: Give yourself permission to feel joy, rest, or play—guilt-free. Day 6 – The Call Is Coming From Inside the House: Spot limiting beliefs and begin rewriting your inner narrative. Day 7 – Write Your Self-Agreement: Declare a new, intentional relationship with yourself. This 7-day challenge starts April 22nd. Join now and start shifting today HERE Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago,

0:06.1

and I've been documenting my journey ever since, sharing my life lessons and revelations.

0:10.9

I believe in casual over clinical, with you instead of at you.

0:14.2

I come unrehearsed on purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

0:21.8

In a previous episode, I disclosed right before I chopped my hair,

0:27.6

talking to my hairdresser, and she asked,

0:31.0

what kind of haircut do you want?

0:32.7

And I was imagining 90s Christians later.

0:36.6

You might have heard this.

0:37.5

I mentioned this before.

0:39.0

And the words that came out of my mouth was Christopher Walken.

0:43.0

I don't know why.

0:44.0

I said Christopher Walken.

0:45.5

And she looked at me and she was like, what the fuck?

0:47.2

We are not going to make you look like Christopher Walken.

0:49.9

Well, you know, what's interesting is...

0:52.7

So I had to get another perm and I couldn't go to my usual hairdresser because she's busy.

0:59.7

I'm busy.

1:00.4

I could, the schedules didn't work.

1:01.4

So I just went to this place that does Korean perms.

1:05.7

And I wanted to try someone who only does Asian hair, right?

1:13.9

And so he just, he totally primmed a shit out of it, like the sides of the bag and it went really tight. And now I straight up look like

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