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Do You F*cking Mind?

493. Right Person Wrong Time and Good Relationship Wrong Life (Headnoise)

Do You F*cking Mind?

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9914 Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2026

⏱️ 29 minutes

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0:00.0

Hello, beautiful beans and welcome to the podcast episode of today. Of course, this is a head noise

0:19.2

episode. I'm going to be answering your questions.

0:22.8

We're going to be unraveling what's in your head, the head noise, and we're going to try and get

0:28.8

ourselves as close to a solution or an answer or some sort of clarity as possible. Okay.

0:35.3

I've got, this is email head noise. I've got three that I want to work

0:38.8

through and I just want to read out the titles of this head noise because I love, I love a good

0:45.3

title. So this one's right person wrong time. Is it bullshit or not? Love that. The next one is

0:53.9

feeling stuck and looking for direction. And the

0:56.2

other one is good relationship wrong life. How good. Can't wait. Okay, let's get into it. So the first one,

1:03.1

let's begin. Hi, Alexis, I love your pod. I've been listening for about three years now and always

1:07.4

chuck your episodes on when I need my head screwed on a little bit straight

1:10.8

off. That's brilliant. That should be my next campaign. Screw your head on or screw your head.

1:16.7

Anyway, your way of answering advice questions is amazing. It's so insightful and I love how you

1:21.6

will try to lead people to their own answers instead of just outright telling them what to do.

1:25.6

Thank you. Love that. Thank you. That's my goal.

1:29.0

If it's useful, I'm in my early 30s and the man is the same. Like the title suggests, I've always

1:35.1

thought right person wrong time was bullshit. And if someone was the right person, it wouldn't matter

1:40.5

on timing and you'd find a way to make it work. I guess I've met someone that's changed my mind and I need some help navigating it. We met through work where I'm in a

1:49.6

lower working position to him. I'm currently in a graduate position and when we met he was in

1:53.8

the position of my assessor slash instructor. Nothing unto what happened while we were indirect

1:58.0

working lines of each other but the vibes were vibing and the banter was flowing, which we love. Essentially, immediately after we finished working

2:05.6

together, he came up on my Tinder. I thought, fuck it, and I liked him, and it was a match.

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