Most women think style is about clothes, and I'm here to tell you it is about so much more.

The way I like to define it is style is your inner thoughts about yourself made visible.

And it's one of the most accurate self-portraits a woman paints of herself.

It's a daily public answer to the question, who do you think you are?

It can showcase your values,

your dreams, as well as your limitations and doubts, which means every style mistake a woman

makes is not a fashion mistake. It's a self-image mistake, wearing fabric. And until you see that,

you will continue to try to buy your way out of a

problem that you cannot shop your way through. I know this because I made the three biggest style

mistakes a woman can make, and I did it for years. And I want to walk you through what each one

was actually doing to me underneath. So let's dive in. Welcome to the School of Self-image,

where our motto is simple. Elevate your self-image, elevate your life. I'm Tanya Lee, your hostess,

and I'll guide you to become the woman who doesn't just dream bigger. She lives bigger. Let's dive in.

Today we are talking about my top three style mistakes and more importantly, what each one costs me on the inside. If you have ever blamed your closet

for something your closet was not actually responsible for, this episode is for you. Here's what I want you to listen for as I

walk you through these three mistakes. Style is not a layer you add on top of your life. It is a

reflection of how you see yourself. The clothes you reach for in the morning, the things that you maybe save for

one day, the things that you refuse to buy because they feel too good for you, all of that is a

voting. Every day, for or against the woman that you're becoming. So when I tell you about my three

mistakes, I'm not really telling you about clothes.

I'm telling you about the three lies that I believed about myself and how those lies showed up

in my closet first before sometimes they showed up anywhere else. Your closet is honest,

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