483: How To Have The Best Sex Ever + Maintain That Spark In Long-Term Relationships with Alexa That Sex Chick
Highest Self Podcast®
Sahara Rose
4.8 • 6.2K Ratings
🗓️ 14 February 2023
⏱️ 99 minutes
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Summary
This episode is sexy AF. I mean you wouldn't expect less for Valentine's Day, would you? If you've been yearning to go deeper into your sensuality, this is for you. I sit down with Alexa aka That Sex Chick to discuss becoming our own best lover and dive into various toys and practices we can use to support. We discuss jade eggs, crystal wands, g-spot wands, cervical de-armoring and various types of vibrators.
She then shares with us how she maintains erotic spark and intimacy in her long-term marriage – even giving the breakdown of their practice to move them out of their heads and into the body including elemental massage, sensual touch, energetics and kink – leading to the best sex ever. You'll want to take notes in this episode.. And have your partner listen too!
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| 0:00.0 | such a huge percentage of women are just not even experiencing orgasm through sex just to begin with. |
| 0:05.6 | And because the men, you know, are following what porn does and it's not even what one in the lack of communication and then women faking orgasms and just like not exploring. |
| 0:14.0 | But when you're able to go there and know your body, it's like every single one has a lesson for you and a softening. |
| 0:21.8 | And for me, like my cervical orgasms, it's like, I see visions, like I see like hieroglyphics, I get like downloads, like I got this download one set, like the real reason that the pyramids are there is because the woman would be like directly under the tip of the pyramid in this like aligns things position and her chakras are like completely in alignment with the top of it and she would trans meet her sexual energy that would go through the top of the pyramid into the serious galaxy and like all these downloads. |
| 0:48.8 | And that's that good good yeah or it's terrifying. You know, some people almost avoid orgasm because they're afraid of that. Oh, I'm like, I can't be all. |
| 0:58.2 | Oh, I know. I am a friend. I am a friend that is so sensitive to sensation and afraid that she'll blast off. You know, because even being around people that are on substances or whatever, she's like, I'm so sensitive. |
| 1:10.2 | And like, are you self-pleasured and she's like, I can't remember the last time I did because I'm so afraid of the last thing off, but that's the beauty of sex because you're so in your body. |
| 1:29.2 | Hey, it's the horror rose and welcome back to the highest self podcast a place to discuss what makes you your soul's highest involvement. |
| 1:36.2 | I have been really diving into my own sensuality and it has been such a beautiful journey of self love and spirituality, but also play and fun. |
| 1:46.2 | So I was super excited when I met that sex chick, a K Alexa because she is the queen of all of these things from the sensual side to the erotic side to the king side and everything in between. |
| 1:59.2 | And as soon as I met her, I knew I had to bring her on the podcast for Valentine's Day episode because come on, let's get real. We keep it spicy up in here. |
| 2:06.2 | And this is definitely the spiciest conversation we've ever had on the podcast. We are breaking grounds right here. And this is like the Sahara single era. So it's a whole new era of me. So get ready for even more open and juicy and only version of me on the episodes to come. |
| 2:23.2 | So this conversation is just as spiritual as it is just like sexy and fun. |
| 2:29.2 | We talk about Tantric sex. She goes through many different sex toys with us that she actually brought. So if you're listening to this and not watching this, I highly recommend also watching it either on Spotify video or on YouTube. |
| 2:40.2 | So you can actually see the sex toys that she's sharing with us. So she goes through the Jade egg, the crystal wand, various forms of vibrator, kink toys and shows us how to use it with ourselves and with partners. |
| 2:52.2 | So it's such a beautiful episode to allow you to have the best sex ever and also maintain that spark in long term relationships because let's be real after a few years of a long term relationship. |
| 3:03.2 | It's often work to keep that spark going and it doesn't mean it's impossible. In fact, it can keep getting better. However, it does take active communication and vulnerability and trial and error on both sides. |
| 3:15.2 | So she really speaks into that and she actually gives us the step by step ritual. She does with her husband, which like I was just like I'm in love with you guys like this is amazing bringing that into my next partnership for sure. |
| 3:27.2 | And also after this conversation, she gave me a private little experience with various toys. We did not have sex, but I have my clothes on, but you know, she was putting the feather on my back and this like cold thing and just like various sensations. |
| 3:42.2 | And I loved it because it's such a beautiful practice of receiving and giving to a lover or a partner that allows you to be in your body and out of your mind. |
| 3:52.2 | So after I recorded this, I was like, I'm ordering all the different tools and things just to have more pleasure and sensation because we really are embodied beings and we're able to connect back into that, especially we spend so much time on our laptops and our heads and in our masculine just drops us back into the heart and back into the body and the womb. |
| 4:11.2 | So this is a really juicy conversation that you're going to want to send some friends you're going to want to relisten to like it is fun. You're going to be laughing along with us. This episode is a good fucking time. |
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