480 - Communication Hacks: Remastered

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9 • 935 Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2024

⏱️ 65 minutes

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This week we have a throwback episode going back six years ago to when we discussed three powerful communication tools to strengthen your relationships: switchtracking, bids, and microscripts. We're going to explore each of these concepts, provide examples of each, and talk about some practical and actionable tips to help you use them to foster better communication in your relationships. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORYQuality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORYThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month.Get a personalized original song and put it on Spotify for free at our special link Songfinch.com/multiamory Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	This is something that we've all talked about a little bit earlier is this idea of these
0:09.1	couples where they see them accepting each other's bids much more often. I think that part of that is
0:15.6	because they're better at knowing when to make the bids.
0:18.4	When to make the bid also. That's a very important. So I think sex is a good
0:22.4	example of that where it's getting out of your own head of just like I want this thing right now I'm in the mood for this thing right now to like combining that with what am I seeing how my
0:34.9	partner is feeling how do I know from interacting with them before when they're more or less
0:40.9	likely to be interested in this. Have they even told me
0:43.4	specifically? Like I don't like doing that in the morning or something like what can you
0:48.8	take a little step, it goes back to the mindfulness thing, but can you take a little step outside of just
0:55.5	your own thoughts and your own desires to go, is this something that I think they'd be receptive to right now?
1:01.5	Yeah. And then approaching it then, or being like, okay, I'll wait. be receptive to right now and then
1:03.0	then or being like okay I'll wait and maybe talk about that more later.
1:07.0	Welcome to the multi-amory podcast.
1:11.0	I'm Jace.
1:12.0	I'm Emily and I'm Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of
1:16.4	relationships not maintaining the status quo of the past. Whether you're
1:21.0	monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships
1:26.6	differently, we see you and we're here for you.
1:31.8	I know I did.
1:38.0	Forcing me to for myself to fit.
1:45.0	On this episode of the Multie-Amory Podcast, we are stepping into a time machine and we are bringing you back an episode from spring of 2018.
1:56.0	Six years ago is when we recorded this episode originally
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