I think a lot of times people have this sunk cost fallacy in their mind that wow I put so much time and effort into this relationship and now it's over, what the hell, like why did I spend all of that time?

Why did I spend such a huge part of my life, almost a third of my life putting energy into this when ultimately it ended.

And that's just, it's bullshit.

You learned something.

I absolutely learned an incredible amount from what I just went through and from the relationship for the

last almost decade and I think that just realize and give yourself the gift of

knowing hey I went through something

and I also am stronger and a better person

for having gone through it.

Welcome to the Multiamari Podcast.

I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm Dettaker. We believe in looking

to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past. Whether you're

monogamous, polyamorous,

swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you and we're here for you. Fongs I know I did.

Forson made up for myself to fit.

On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast,

we're talking about breakups

as told through the lens of the five stages of grief.

Breakups are hard for anyone, especially if you're breaking up in a long-term, very

entwined relationship, and it can be difficult to know what to do or where to turn, and a lot of the feelings that come up can surprise you.

Emily recently went through a very significant breakup and is still in the healing and recovering process, which is what inspired

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