478: Quitting Isn't the Enemy, Living Without Belief Is
Your Virtual Upline Podcast
Bob Heilig
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 8 August 2025
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Let me ask you something. Are you wearing a "badge of honor" that says, "I haven't quit yet"? Do you find yourself pushing, posting, and grinding, but deep down you're not sure it's working? Today, I'm taking you inside a coaching conversation that revealed a hard truth many of us are carrying but have never questioned: continuing without belief is more dangerous than quitting.
In this episode, you'll learn why the fear-led system has trapped so many good-hearted leaders in a cycle of exhaustion and shame, and what the real difference is between just "staying" and truly "believing."
This isn't just about changing your strategy; it's about changing the very foundation of your business. If you're ready to stop measuring your worth by the fact that you haven't quit and start building from a place of peace and purpose, this episode is for you.
Listen to Learn:
1:09 - Why the "I haven't quit yet" badge of honor just might be holding you back from real growth and success
1:55 - What the real problem is with focusing on results and how it keeps the fear-led achiever in control
3:24 - How to distinguish between staying and believing, and why one leads to burnout while the other fuels genuine leadership
4:28 - The surprising truth about why continuing to work hard without belief is more dangerous than quitting
7:43 - How the fear-led system teaches us to hustle out of pressure and fear, not from a place of belief
9:13 - Why the true way to build a sustainable and successful business is from a place of love and belief
10:14 - Why you don't need more commitment or consistency, but more of this one thing
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, Bob here, and welcome to the Your Virtual Upline podcast. |
| 0:10.5 | I would rather someone stop completely than to continue grinding in something that they never trusted was theirs to begin with. |
| 0:22.7 | And it's not because I want you to quit. |
| 0:25.6 | It's because continuing without belief is more dangerous than you stopping. |
| 0:33.1 | So for today's episode, I want to take you inside a coaching conversation that I had that I have not been able to stop thinking about since I've had it. |
| 0:43.8 | At the time, it wasn't some giant breakthrough moment. |
| 0:47.4 | We were on a Zoom call with a bunch of our students. |
| 0:50.2 | And it was just one sentence. |
| 0:52.1 | It was something that I said in response to a client of ours that revealed something that I think a lot of us are still carrying. |
| 1:02.1 | But I haven't ever heard anybody question this. |
| 1:04.9 | I certainly never thought about it this way. |
| 1:06.6 | But if you're someone who's still showing up, who's still posting, and keeps telling yourself, |
| 1:15.1 | I haven't quit yet, right? |
| 1:16.7 | Like, that's your badge of honor. |
| 1:18.4 | I wore that badge of honor for a very long time. |
| 1:21.6 | I'm not going to give up. |
| 1:22.6 | I haven't quit yet. |
| 1:24.0 | This episode is for you. |
| 1:26.0 | So let me unpack this for you. We're on a coaching call, |
| 1:30.0 | one of our students in our love led growth program. She comes on and she's struggling with her |
| 1:36.2 | content, right? And so her challenge was the same challenge we all have. She's implementing a new |
| 1:42.3 | way of creating content and the posts are not getting the |
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