Welcome to the multi-ammery podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm

Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the

status quo of the past.

Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging,

casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you, and we're here for you.

Fongs I know I did.

Force and made up for myself to fit.

On this episode of the Multiamery Podcast, we are answering a question from one of our Patreon supporters.

If you want the opportunity to ask a question on the show

become one of our patrons at patreon.com slash multi-amory. We will be doing this for the next couple months

releasing an extra episode each week answering a listener's question and we are

really excited to hear from you all on what you think of this new format.

Quick disclaimer, we have spent a lot of time studying healthy relationship, communication, and thinking

about these things, but we're also not mind readers. Our advice is based solely on the limited

information that we have, so please take it with a grain of salt and make your

own decisions. Every situation is unique. Of course, we always encourage you to use your own judgment, seek professional help if needed.

You are the only true expert on your own life, your feelings, your decisions are your own,

and bear in mind that these questions have been edited for time and clarity.

Today's question. Any advice for people coming to consensual non-monogamy because a

partner fell in love with someone else while they were still monogamous?

For context, I've been in a monogamous relationship with the same person for 25 years.

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