A woman in the UK who wrote a lot about her personal stories, her personal experiences with dating.

It seems like she'd been in the dating scene for a long time trying to find a partner and she was

laying out this very complicated saga where she was dating a polyamorous guy for the

first time and she never experienced that before and she also didn't have an interest in

polyamary. She was going through a lot of pain, it sounds like he wasn't also great

at it necessarily. She was not having a really good time and I slid into the

comments really to say you probably

shouldn't be dating this person you know the things that you want are great but like

this is not a good non-monogamy experience in general and clearly it's not going to

end the way that you're hoping to because you're just really in a lot of pain and she responded saying yeah I get what you're saying but like I have been lonely for so long, and I've just been wanting someone who

can touch me and be affectionate with me and go on dates with me, and I've been missing

out on that for so long that this feels like it's the best that I got right now.

It was really sad to see that, but I was like, but I get it.

If you feel like you don't have a ton of options, but when you're in it, that sense that this is what I got.

I would rather lean into that and maybe try to get some of what I need rather than throwing it in the garbage.

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I'm Emily.

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