Welcome to the multi-ammery podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm

Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the

status quo of the past.

Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging,

casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you and we're here for you.

Fongs I know I did.

Force made up for myself to fix.

On this episode of the Multie-emory Podcast, we are answering a question from one of our Patreon supporters.

If you want the opportunity to ask a question on the show, become one of our patrons at

Patreon.com slash Multiamery.

We will be doing this for the next couple months, releasing an extra episode each week

answering a listener's question and we're really excited to hear from you all about what you think of this new format.

We have spent a lot of time studying healthy relationship communication,

but we're not mind readers, we're working on it, but it's a slow process.

So just keep that in mind as we answer these questions. Our advice is based solely on the limited

information that we have from the questions, so please take it with a grain of salt.

Everybody's situation is unique.

We encourage you to use your own judgment.

Seek professional help if needed.

And the question below has been edited for time and clarity.

The question is, how can I know if sneaky arky is happening in my relationship?

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