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Black Girls Heal

#47: You Can't "Practice" With Unhealthy People

Black Girls Heal

Shena Lashey

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.81.8K Ratings

🗓️ 14 April 2020

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Someone people hang onto people that they shouldn't so they can "practice" their communication and boundary skills on them. In this episode, we're talking about why you shouldn't do that. 

 

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0:00.0

My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

0:20.0

is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

0:26.4

means necessary.

0:29.7

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

0:34.4

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

0:38.5

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and

0:44.8

grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nel Lache, Love Edition coach and Trauma Specialist.

0:50.3

Let's begin.

0:52.3

Hello, hello. Let's begin.

0:59.0

Hello, ladies and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel.

1:03.2

Girl, it has been a day. So imagine my feelings when I was like, I'm stressed.

1:09.0

I need something that's going to make me happy.

1:11.8

And I literally thought I need to do my podcast episode right now.

1:16.4

So I was very excited that the date ended in the way that it did to where I actually wasn't able

1:21.9

to record this earlier because I needed it now. I

1:24.8

needed to do something that brings me joy, which is talking to all of you and

1:29.0

giving you love and support. In case this is your first time joining me, this is the Black

1:36.3

Girls Hill podcast where I talk to women who struggle with intimacy disorders

1:41.9

like love addiction, love avoidance, and love anorexia.

1:45.9

And these are all just fancy ways of saying that we have different methods that we would push

1:51.1

away intimacy and connection persistently and

1:56.2

almost an addictive cycle to self-sooth and self-medicate and so this podcast is for all of those women who struggle with those problems, where you are not like your securely attached sisters.

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