From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy is overdone, romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork

out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm joining to Lorenzo your co-host,

along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call on the Hug hotline at 858, 876, 563 or send us an email to hugs at one extraordinary marriage.com.

In today's show we talk about the importance of being in the moment by getting out of your head and

into your bed to experience a heightened level of sexual intimacy.

And there's an anonymous quote that says overthinking ruins you ruins the situation twist things around makes

you worry and just makes everything much worse than it is. Ooh overthinking that's the big word right there over thinking being in your head and we're

going to be talking about that specifically as it relates to sexual intimacy

today but we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug and

this week's hug is sponsored by Care Of and Care Of makes it easy to get your vitamins

and supplements and as we start a new year we definitely want to be able to share

this with you a little bit later in the show.

Now this hug comes from an email we received and the wife says we have tried tackling the

seven days of sex challenge for weeks. It felt almost impossible. We have a six

month old who got sick and has been teething so I'm constantly having to nurse

my baby leaving my husband on the edge of the bed and I just want to say something before I read the success story here,

is that they kept trying, right?

Just because they had a challenge didn't mean that they stopped trying to complete the challenge.

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