457 - Creating Lasting Sexual Connections with Emily Nagoski

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

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Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9 • 935 Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2024

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Today we're welcoming back Emily Nagoski to talk about her newest book, Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections. Emily is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestselling Come As You Are, and coauthor, with her sister, Amelia, of New York Times bestseller Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. Her next book, Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections will be out in January 2024.Emily earned an M.S. in counseling and a Ph.D. in health behavior, both from Indiana University, with clinical and research training at the Kinsey Institute. Now she combines sex education and stress education to teach women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies. She lives in Massachusetts with two dogs, a cat, and a cartoonist. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month.Treat yourself to some stories to turn you on or help you drift off to sleep with an extended 30-day free trial at DipseaStories.com/multiQuality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORYControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code MULTIAMORY at LumeDeodorant.com Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:14.4	Early in a relationship, you're often like going to visit each other's gardens and like explore and find out what's there, but at a certain point in a long-term relationship when your sexual connection lasts over years you eventually you start to cultivate a shared
0:18.4	garden you bring over your favorite things from your garden and they bring over
0:22.1	their favorite things from their garden and they bring over their favorite things from their garden. You hope to heck those things are
0:25.5	compatible they're not going to strangulate each other. And you know as time
0:30.1	passes there are certain seasons in life when the garden gets neglected.
0:34.4	And also the garden is still there and you can go back and untangle all the weeds that have grown.
0:41.5	So it's not just about your individual garden, it's about like here's
0:44.9	this shared plot that you and I are cultivating together. What do we love? Like what do we
0:51.1	want to have in this garden? The way Peggy Kleinplots asks her
0:54.4	clients is, what kind of sex is worth wanting?
0:58.0	Welcome to the Multiamari Podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm Dettaker. We believe in
1:06.2	looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past.
1:11.0	Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do
1:16.9	relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. you. Fongs I know I did.
1:29.0	Forson made up for myself to fit.
1:36.1	On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast,
1:38.7	we're talking about the science and art
1:41.4	of creating lasting sexual connections with Dr. Emily Nagowski
1:46.0	Emily Nagowski is the award-winning author of the New York Times best-selling book
1:50.5	Come As You Are, and co-author with her sister, Amelia, of the New York Times Best
1:56.0	Seller Burnout, The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle.
2:00.2	We've talked about both of those books before on this show, but today we're very excited to be talking about her next book,
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