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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

456 - F The Fairytale with Damona Hoffman

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 23 January 2024

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

Today we're welcoming back Damona Hoffman, the Resident Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and OkCupid's Official Dating Coach. Damona is the host of the long-running podcast Dates & Mates, which has just begun airing its 10th season. She is also an advice columnist for the LA Times and a writer on dating and relationships for the Washington Post. Damona can frequently be seen on Access Daily sharing the latest dating news. We're going to be discussing her upcoming book, F the Fairytale: Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

You get the chance in each of these dating interactions to practice listening, to practice

0:11.6

understanding another person's point of view,

0:13.2

and especially if you're coming to meet a stranger,

0:17.0

you don't know any of this yet.

0:19.4

We like to try to go through the dating apps and shortcut it and say like,

0:24.8

well, I saw which emojes were on their profile,

0:29.4

and therefore I know them.

0:30.9

You know, we want to shortcut it. And I know why we I know we want to shortcut it because it does take a lot of time and effort to go through this swiping process.

0:40.0

Apps changed because people wanted easy.

0:44.0

They wanted ease of use.

0:45.0

Like the barrier for entry used to be really high for online dating.

0:50.0

Now it's super low. There's no gatekeepers.

0:52.0

It's free now. We used to have to pay for it.

0:55.0

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace.

1:00.0

I'm Emily and I'm Dettaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships

1:05.5

not maintaining the status quo of the past. Whether you're monogamous,

1:10.1

polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. I know I did.

1:25.0

forcing me to for myself to fit.

1:30.0

On this episode of the Multie-Amory Podcast, we are joined once again by

1:37.7

Domona Hoffman, the resident love expert of the Drew Barrymore show,

1:42.4

Okay Cupid's official dating coach, a writer and fellow

1:45.7

podcaster.

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