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The Terri Cole Show

456 How to Effectively Communicate During Conflict (Without Making It Worse!)

The Terri Cole Show

Terri Cole

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 22 November 2022

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

When you're in the heat of a fight do you have a tendency to explode or say things you don't mean? Or do you withdraw in anger and become silent?

Both of these reactions to conflict are very common communication-blocking techniques. Effective communication is something we hear a lot about but often I think the meaning is unclear. 

In today's episode, I'm breaking down the top 4 communication blockers + giving you sentence starters and scripts to help. You'll learn what you can do to break these unhelpful behavior patterns and work towards actually solving conflict with effective communication instead.

Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/456



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0:00.0

Well, hello, and welcome to this episode of The Terry Cole Show

0:03.0

that I want to start with a question.

0:04.9

When you are in the heat of a fight,

0:07.0

do you have a tendency to either explode and say things

0:10.4

that you don't mean or that you're regretted

0:12.6

or do you shut down entirely?

0:15.0

Do you not talk to the person?

0:16.6

Do you give them the silent treatment?

0:18.3

Because these are all very common ways

0:20.5

that people block their own ability to communicate

0:24.0

when they are in conflict.

0:26.2

So in today's episode, I'm breaking down

0:28.7

the top four communication blockers,

0:30.6

things that we do when we're in conflict that are not good,

0:34.5

what you can do instead in each scenario.

0:37.0

And I'm also giving you scripts and sentence starters.

0:40.1

So when you are in the heat of the moment,

0:42.4

you will have the words that you need to not make it worse,

0:47.2

but actually get to some kind of resolution.

0:50.4

I want to take a moment to thank all of you

0:52.6

for hanging out with me today

0:53.8

because I super appreciate you.

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