Hello, beautiful beans and welcome to the podcast episode of today.

So this episode is all about charisma.

Is it learnt?

Is it innate?

I mean, you'd know by the by the fucking title of this episode that charisma is learned

and that there are ways that you can get more of it. This, and this is what I love the most about

it. It does not matter if you are introverted or if you are extroverted or if you're like me

and you're an ambivert. This applies to absolutely everyone. I think a lot of people

think that charisma is very much something that extroverted people have and introverted people may not

have, but that is not the case at all. And there's certain traits that lean more into kind of innate

things that extroverted people may have, but those traits can also

be used by introverts without feeling like you have to be extroverted, quote unquote, in order

to be able to use those traits. Okay, so it is learnt. You can actually become more charismatic.

And the reason why I wanted to do this episode is because be how you want to be. If you don't want to be charismatic, don't be charismatic. But the reason why I wanted to do this episode is because be how you want to be.

If you don't want to be charismatic, don't be charismatic. But the reason why being charismatic is so

good is because having charisma is a really, really good way of having people be able to relate

to you, feel comfortable around you, feel like they can share things with you, connect with

you in a faster way and on a deeper level. There's many, many, many, many, many things

that having charisma will kind of give you as far as forming relationships, whether it's

professional or whether it's intimate relationships, forming bonds,

especially making new friends, which is something that I get asked about all the fucking time on

this podcast. So I think it's cool that charisma can be learned and you can kind of lean into

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