430: Burn Down Your Success Strategy
School of Self-Image
Tonya Leigh
4.8 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 26 February 2025
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
Evolving Your Success: How to Let Go of Outdated Strategies
In the journey of personal and professional development, individuals often rely on success strategies that have previously yielded positive results. However, as we evolve and our goals change, these strategies can become outdated and may even hinder our growth. Recognizing and letting go of these outdated success strategies is crucial for achieving new results and stepping into the next version of ourselves.
Tonya Leigh explores the concept of breaking up with outdated success strategies that may have once propelled you to achievement but are now holding you back. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing what no longer serves you in order to evolve into your next best self. Tonya shares insights on how to identify these limiting beliefs and practices, and encourages listeners to embrace change for greater ease, confidence, and alignment in their lives.
Tune in to discover how letting go of past strategies can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic path to success.
Talking Points:
01:12 - Breaking Up with Your Success Strategy
03:32 - People Pleasing as a Success Strategy
06:14 - Inner Conflict with People Pleasing
08:02 - Building Walls for Protection
10:08 - Hitting a Ceiling with Current Strategies
11:04 - Breaking Down the 14 Success Strategies We Adopt
23:46 - Other Success Strategies
24:07 - Worry as a Success Strategy
25:32 - Breaking Up with Your Strategy
27:21 - Practical Experiments for Change
29:18 - Visualization and Growth
31:06 - Willingness to Burn Down Old Strategies
Quotes:
"What if the very thing that has made you successful is now the very thing keeping you stuck?"
"I'm going to have to burn down my success strategy in order to create what it is that I see in my mind in order for me to have the impact that I know I am here to make."
"I have been willing to break up with my success strategy of people pleasing."
"You've got to break up with your risk aversion."
"I want to invite all of us to consider success strategies that are fun, expansive, and full of ease."
"Are you willing to burn down your current success strategy to see what's possible for you?"
"To create something you've never had, you're going to have to become someone you've never been."
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | What if the very thing that made you successful is now the thing keeping you stuck? |
| 0:05.9 | You see, so many of us build our lives around a strategy that once worked, hustling, pleasing, |
| 0:12.7 | proving, but at some point it stopped serving us. |
| 0:16.8 | In today's episode, we're exposing these outdated success strategies and learning how to burn them down |
| 0:22.4 | so that you can create success with more ease, confidence, and alignment. |
| 0:27.6 | So let's dive in. |
| 0:31.2 | Welcome to the School of Self-image, where personal development meets style. |
| 0:36.3 | Here's your hostess, Master Life Coach, Tanya Lee. |
| 0:40.7 | Hello, my friends. How are you doing? I'm trying to be a little quiet because I have a |
| 0:46.4 | house full of people who are staying with me. And I know as soon as they wake up, they're going to want to |
| 0:51.8 | hit their ground running. And so I have work to do. |
| 0:56.9 | I want them to sleep. It's like when you used to have babies in the house and you don't want to |
| 1:01.8 | wake them up because you want to actually get things done, that's how I feel right now. So we'll |
| 1:05.6 | see how it goes. But today we are talking about breaking up. I know it's a sad day, but it's also an amazing day |
| 1:16.3 | because this is something you may want to consider breaking up with. And that, my friend, |
| 1:22.3 | is your success strategy. And I'm going to explain to you what I mean. But I want to ask you this, what if the very |
| 1:30.5 | thing that has made you successful is now the very thing keeping you stuck? One of the things that I |
| 1:39.1 | work a lot with women around within the School of Self Image Membership is recognizing what they need to let go of |
| 1:47.4 | in order to step into the next version of themselves. And oftentimes, the very thing that they need |
| 1:53.7 | to let go of is the very thing that has helped them be successful in life. And that's really |
| 2:00.0 | difficult to do. because we've never |
| 2:03.6 | created success any other way. But there's a saying that says, what got you here won't get you |
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