There's this thought that okay I will have confidence when and you can fill in the blank I'll have confidence when I am this or when I get this or when I become this

It's and that's not what confidence is. Confidence is not based on a

position, a title. It's confidence based on who you are today and knowing the value that you bring today.

I'm Amy.

And I'm Abby and as women we are constantly comparing ourselves to others.

But your life isn't supposed to look like her. constantly comparing ourselves to others.

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers.

Being your best self means standing firm in your decisions

and always being willing to grow with a purpose.

We get vulnerable and real with an honest look into the

challenges and triumphs we all face. Every woman listening gets the opportunity

to choose what life looks like for herself.

We are honored to welcome Valera Wilson to the podcast today.

Valera is the author of the upcoming book, you're

absolutely worth it, and she's also a speaker, a coach, and she's the

founder of positive identity. So Valer is working to inspire women. She's been so great being able to follow you

and all the greatness that you're doing right now

in your work, relationships, and also in life.

So Valerra, I'm really excited to dive in,

but first and foremost, can you start

with a little introduction of yourself?

Sure, well, first of all, thank you a million times

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