5 • 862 Ratings
🗓️ 15 June 2025
⏱️ 45 minutes
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In this episode, I am talking about that all too familiar feeling of second guessing the good things in our lives like wondering if there's something better out there. Whether it's your relationship, job, or even a personal goal. I discuss the difference between knowing when to walk away and when you’re just not seeing the value in what you already have. I share some super practical tips and easy exercises to help you figure out what’s really going on. If you’ve ever found yourself sabotaging something good for the sake of “what if,” this one’s for you. I have also created a worksheet for you to take notes on here.
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0:00.0 | Hello, beautiful, beautiful human beings, and welcome to the podcast episode of today. |
0:18.6 | So this podcast episode was actually inspired by some |
0:22.1 | off the cuff impromptu questions that I was asked at the live show during the meet and greet. |
0:29.3 | So I was doing a meet and greet after every live show and a few people were like, I just quickly |
0:34.2 | need advice on something. What would you what would would you advise if dot, dot, dot? |
0:37.8 | And I'll give you a prime example in a second. |
0:39.6 | So I thought, based on these questions, I'm going to title this episode, |
0:43.9 | how to fuck up a good thing by chasing something that never existed. |
0:47.7 | So obviously I'm not going to actually teach you how to fuck up a good thing. |
0:50.2 | I'm going to try and teach you how to not to fuck up a good thing. I'm going to try and teach you how to not to. How to not to fuck up a good thing. |
0:54.8 | But I thought this is a prime example of what so many of us do. Like we are so like, is this |
0:59.7 | right? Is it? And then we end up throwing it down the drain, whether it's a friendship, |
1:05.5 | whether it's a romantic relationship, whether it's a job, whether it's an opportunity, in the hopes of something |
1:13.6 | shinier and better. Now, another big reason why I wanted to do this episode is because often I |
1:20.6 | talk about take the leap of faith, do that strong thing, leave if it's not working. So we're going to |
1:26.0 | break down the difference because a lot of people |
1:28.9 | are like, yeah, well, can't you always talk about, you know, having the balls to leave and moving |
1:33.1 | countries and it's always about going and doing the thing. But for those people that are really |
1:38.2 | stuck being like, what if I'm about to give up something that's really good? Because I'm always looking |
1:42.7 | for the next best thing and I'm never satisfied, that's what we're going to talk about. We're going to learn the difference |
1:47.3 | of knowing when to leave, when to chase that thing, when to take the leap of faith, |
1:51.3 | versus when to actually learn what you've got, that's good and not being in one of those |
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