419: The Foundation of Decorating a Home and Transforming It into a Sanctuary
The Simple Sophisticate - Intelligent Living Paired with Signature Style
Shannon Ables
4.7 • 944 Ratings
🗓️ 4 February 2026
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
"My Four Tenets of Good Design are not rules to follow, as much as they are a framework to help you think about design, not just as something pretty to look at but as something that inspires you to be the best version of yourself in the moments when no one is watching." —Nate Berkus, Foundations
A feeling of immediate release of any tension, letting the day wash away, and a trust that the comforts and reminders of love and bounty of a beautiful life lived surround you is what a thoughtfully decorated sanctuary gives us each time we cross the threshold.
The truth is a sanctuary can be found anywhere, and in fact doesn't need to be a place, but as we talked about in Monday's Motivational post, can be people or even ineffable things – concepts, ideas where we rest our mind. However, most definitely, our home can be a sanctuary, and today, we're going to explore 7 ways to transform your home into just that.
Because a home isn't always a sanctuary. It may have four walls that keep us warm and shelter us, but the definition of a sanctuary is that it is a reliable place of refuge to rejuvenate ourselves. As defined in Buddha's Brain, a book written by Rick Hanson and the inspiration behind episode #327, a sanctuary is anyone or anything that provides reliable protection, so that you can let down your guard and gather strength and wisdom."
So with that definition in mind, when American interior designer Nate Berkus' new book, Foundations, was released this past November, I found a helpful companion resource to help each of us identify what would make our home a sanctuary and where to start the journey of gradually decorating a nest that feels far more than just a home, but most definitely a sanctuary.
The guiding premise of Foundations is Berkus' four tenets of good design: make it personal, embrace history, introduce character, and develop your vision. These will guide us through today's episode/post. Let's begin exploring how to lay the foundation of our decorating journey so that as we progress, adding pieces, making decisions along the way, we have clarity and trust what we choose.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the simple sophisticate, where in 2014, this podcast premiered, and now in its 12th season, |
| 0:10.0 | the show continues to focus on the same principles it was founded upon, the art of living a life of quality over quantity. |
| 0:18.0 | Topics range from creating an everyday life you love living, strengthening mindfulness |
| 0:22.9 | practices, building a capsule wardrobe, preparing seasonally delicious meals, traveling and exploring |
| 0:29.2 | France and Britain, and living life to the fullest as you courageously honor your true self, |
| 0:34.8 | because living well really is quite simple once we know the skills of |
| 0:39.3 | cultivating contentment. I'm your host, Shannon Ables, and whether you're listening while |
| 0:44.7 | you're on your commute, exercising, working in the garden or art studio, in route or returning from |
| 0:50.4 | that dream destination, or sitting down and savoring a hot cuppa or a cafe au lae. Thank you for |
| 0:57.1 | tuning in. Let's get started. Welcome to the 419th episode of the Simple Sophisticate. And welcome to |
| 1:05.8 | February. We are stepping into a new month. And today we're going to talk about our sanctuary that is our home |
| 1:14.0 | and the potential, or should I say the potential that our home can be to become our sanctuary. |
| 1:20.6 | Because as we're going to talk about, just because a home is where we live doesn't mean it is |
| 1:26.7 | immediately a sanctuary. |
| 1:28.3 | We'll talk about what a sanctuary is and then explore how to create the foundation |
| 1:33.6 | of transforming our home into a sanctuary. |
| 1:38.3 | But first, this week's Petit Pleizier is an Anglophile find, |
| 1:42.9 | and it is a fun new series that if you haven't already discovered |
| 1:48.1 | it, you are in for a treat. Now before we dive into today's topic, I want to just give a heads |
| 1:54.9 | up reminder and I'm so excited to finally be able to say this to you this coming Sunday on the |
| 2:00.2 | 8th. Yes, I know it's Super Bowl |
| 2:01.4 | Sunday and yes, I know other things are happening. But my goodness, I have something super to share |
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