Hello everyone. Hello welcome to the pod. My guess this week is Whitney and her boyfriend cheated on her. That's where we start. Not only that she's in his apartment, he's not there, and she's looking for evidence of that and she finds some feminine hygiene products in his apartment and she sees him as untrust trustworthy and gas lighting her. She wants him to be honest with her.

She's on the phone, sitting on the couch,

and I invite you in and when I say I invite you in it's like even

closer into Whitney's thoughts and feelings or emotions on that phone call with

him on that phone call. It runs very deep and I love your comments

following the podcast, your comments below and you, enough is enough here. Let's do the work. Real deal. I'm in. Are you in?

What's going on? What's going on?

going on Whitney, honey, what's going on?

Yes, so I have my Judge Your Neighbor Worksheets.

And it's about my boyfriend and my number one is I am

frustrated upset hurt with him because he is hiding something from me.

Okay, so what is the situation where he's hiding something from you?

So a little backstory, six months ago he cheated on me and this actually happened yesterday. I was in his

apartment for the first time alone and not good on my behalf. I snooped and I

found some feminine hygiene products in his trash can and so that's where I'm at.

I tried to confront him and now we're in this space no talking spot right now.

So you've seen these feminine hygiene products,

and now you're confronting him,

and that's the situation.

So where specifically are you? What room? I'm on the couch in the

living room in the apartment and this apartment also used to be my apartment I ended up moving out so.

Okay so you're in the living room on the couch is he on the couch too? No, I called him on the phone.

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