4 Things We Wish We'd Understood About Our Own Sexuality
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
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🗓️ 4 September 2025
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
With J out, Chris and Bonny tackle what they wish they'd known about their own sexuality long ago. Learn from their hard-earned insights!
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From the Bible
The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge,
for the ears of the wise seek it out.
Proverbs 18:15
Resources
- What I Wish He Knew . . . | The Forgiven Wife
- Episode 195: Explaining Women's Sexual Response
- Episode 175: Seasoned Wives' Wisdom for Young Wives
- Episode 32: Advice for Our Newlywed Selves
- Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay - STILL ONLY $5 (but price going up soon)
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| 0:44.1 | link in our show notes. Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives, where three marriage bloggers |
| 0:49.6 | discuss the naked truth. What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriages? |
| 0:55.0 | I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycombe and Spice. And I'm Jay Parker, |
| 1:01.4 | of Hot, Holy, and Humorous. Pull up a chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. |
| 1:07.5 | Welcome back to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. Bonnie and I are here today while Jay is visiting a friend in |
| 1:14.5 | France. Poor thing. We miss her. What a place to visit. Yeah. So she's not here, but Bonnie and I decided we |
| 1:23.3 | still know everything about sex between the two of us. So here we are. What we'd like to talk about |
| 1:29.9 | today is four things that we wish we'd understood about our own sexuality before we got married. |
| 1:36.8 | You know, we have a lot of years of experience that we're bringing. And, you know, I know for myself, |
| 1:42.1 | there have been many times I thought, man, if only I'd understood that early in our marriage, we would have been on a totally different trajectory and would have had a better marriage sooner. |
| 1:52.0 | So four things we wish we'd understood about our own sexuality. |
| 1:56.1 | Bonnie, let's go ahead and start with you. |
| 1:58.5 | Sure. |
| 1:58.9 | So one thing I wish that I would have known in early, early |
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