4 Signs You're The Problem

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 28 April 2023

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, John gives his four signs that you may be the problem in your relationship: the same thing keeps happening in your relationships, you keep dating the same person, you're always defensive, and you don't take ownership. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best-selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being. Meet him at -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com Join his private communities -> https://theangrytherapist.circle.so/home Get his daily texts here -> https://www.theangrytherapist.com/text Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own
0:04.3	rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life
0:08.9	lessons and revelations. I believe in casual over clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose
0:16.2	because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.
0:19.2	So when I was going through my rebirth like 12 years ago I was the baby of the
0:27.2	bunch there was like four or five of us all dudes and they were older I was the
0:32.2	youngest and we've kind of faded so these days I'm the
0:38.2	oldest I'm the old guy out of all of my friends and I was talking to one of them the other day and he said I don't want a blow job I want a full body massage and he's swimming toward 40 and I kind of I laughed because there was truth in that because I get what he is saying as I just turned 50.
1:00.0	I want you to look me in the eye and tell me you desire me. I want you to buy me dinner. I want to be held.
1:07.0	It's interesting because as you get older, and I think some of it is physiological. I think some of it is, you know, lowering testosterone,
1:16.0	you're not so high strung, you want connection, right?
1:22.0	And in my 20s, of course I would rather prefer a blow job over a massage, but now my 50s I'm like,
1:31.0	I don't know anyway let's talk about four ways or four signs that you
1:41.6	know you're the problem.
1:43.0	Okay, I'll get right to it.
1:45.0	Oh, real quick, before I begin, I want to remind you of TAT, The
1:50.3	Angry Therapist Podcast Podcasts Premium, which launched not too long ago and I introduced
1:59.2	something called Series and it's basically a series on a topic that rotates every month and I go deeper into the topic but I also give homework and I frame it different than these podcasts in that I try to do everything
2:18.9	I can to not just give the lesson, but what do we do with the lesson right because self-betterment is only 50%
2:28.0	revelations and insight learning connecting dots and then the other 50% is execution and if there's no
2:37.9	execution there's just a lot of theories ideas. So for the premium, there's series episodes
2:47.9	that put a lot more weight on the execution piece.
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