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Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives.

I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice.

I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy.

I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous.

And I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives.

Come up your chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat.

Welcome back to another episode of sex chat for Christian wives.

Chris and Jay are away today, so it's just Bonnie and I holding down the fork.

But we have a great topic for you, four mindset hacks that can lead to better sex.

So we're going to talk about some new and different ways of

thinking about changes you want to make in your sex life, some things you might not have

considered before, and offer some practical tips for making small, positive changes in the way

you think and the things you do. But before we dive in, let's take a minute to define our terms.

What's a mindset and what's a hack?

Bonnie, what do we mean when we talk about mindset?

Well, a mindset is how you make sense of the world.

It influences how you think, feel, and behave in different situations.

And it's how you see things happening.

So, for example, someone who says,

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