#386: What's the Secret To Getting the Marriage & Intimacy You Want? Go Vertical
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 1 November 2021
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
He never saw it coming. It was the night of Dave and Ann's tenth wedding anniversary and if asked how their marriage was doing, Dave would have given them a 9.8 /10. But instead of a celebratory kiss, Ann whispered, "I don’t have any feelings left for you.”
In this episode, Juli talks with Dave and Ann Wilson about how Ann’s efforts to "help" her husband only served to undermine the very connection she was trying to create.
Guests: Dave & Ann Wilson, Hannah Nitz
Show notes:
"Vertical Marriage" by Dave & Ann Wilson*
"Finding the Hero in Your Husband, Revisited" Juli's new book*
Love Like You Mean It Cruise 2022
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Java with Julie. |
| 0:04.0 | I'm Julie Slattery and Hannah Nitz is with me too once again. |
| 0:08.3 | Hey guys. |
| 0:09.0 | Yeah, thanks for joining me, Hannah. |
| 0:11.1 | And this listener-supported podcast is an outreach of authentic intimacy, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality. |
| 0:19.0 | So Julie, this conversation is a very, very, very fun one today. |
| 0:23.7 | Why do you think that? |
| 0:25.3 | This conversation is such a cool tie-in to this whole thing we've been having about your |
| 0:31.0 | new book, Finding the Hero and Your Husband, because it's all the things we've been talking |
| 0:35.2 | about. |
| 0:35.7 | So all these topics we've been having and that you |
| 0:38.2 | wrote in the book kind of come together in a super practical level with a couple who has |
| 0:44.2 | walked through these areas and issues together. Yeah, I feel like it's exhibit A. Yes. So we're |
| 0:52.3 | talking about Dave and Ann Wilson. They are the guests on job with Julie today. |
| 0:56.8 | And they have written a book called Vertical Marriage, where they go through a lot of their story. |
| 1:01.4 | They are also the new hosts of Family Life today, so you might hear them on the radio. |
| 1:05.6 | They are a great couple, and they're just so much fun. |
| 1:08.8 | I've gotten to spend time with them on several different |
| 1:11.0 | occasions and just love being with them. And the ironic thing is that we recorded this conversation |
| 1:17.3 | several months ago before either of them had ever heard of or seen Finding the Hero and Your |
| 1:23.3 | Husband. Yes. So like I just told them about it and ended up endorsing the book, but this is before |
| 1:29.7 | she'd read it. And so she's not even going to use the same language that I used in the book. So you're |
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