362 | Elsa Moreck | How to Attract What You Truly Want in Relationships

The Greatness Machine

Darius Mirshahzadeh

Education, Entrepreneurship, Business

5.0 • 135 Ratings

🗓️ 18 June 2025

⏱️ 68 minutes

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What if everything you’ve been taught about dating is only half the story? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius is joined by dating and relationship coach Elsa Moreck for a powerful deep dive into the psychology of attraction, emotional intelligence, and modern masculinity. Together, they explore what it means to be truly self-aware in your relationships, how to break free from toxic dating patterns, and why your energy speaks louder than words. Elsa shares practical insights on building trust, creating emotional safety, and tapping into your authentic masculine or feminine edge. From decoding body language to mastering presence and communication, this conversation is a game-changer for anyone who wants to date with confidence and intention. In this episode, Darius and Elsa will discuss: (00:00) Introduction and Background (02:58) Elsa's Journey to Becoming a Dating Coach (05:46) Cultural Influences on Dating and Popularity (08:57) Transitioning to Coaching and Entrepreneurship (12:01) The Challenges of 'Just Be Yourself' Advice (15:00) Elsa's Methodology for Coaching Men in Dating (20:19) Personalized Coaching for Dating Success (25:54) The Importance of Flirting Skills (29:57) Understanding and Using Negging (35:58) Dating Dynamics Across Different Ages (37:00) The Role of Financial Success in Dating (42:24) Navigating the Friend Zone (47:12) Understanding Body Language in Attraction (51:56) Effective Communication and Pickup Lines (57:34) The Role of Dating Apps in Modern Dating (58:44) Overcoming Victimhood for Personal Growth Elsa Moreck is a Lebanese-American author and Millennial dating coach based in Austin, Texas. Since 2015, she’s helped Millennials navigate the challenges of modern dating culture—offering guidance on attraction, setting boundaries, and building lasting relationships in a swipe-driven world. Elsa’s coaching practice attracts a global audience seeking clarity in their love lives, and she’s become a trusted voice in the dating scene. In 2016, she published her first book, Eliminate, Meditate, Create. Sponsored by: Constant Contact: Try Constant Contact free for 30 days at constantcontact.com. Huel: Get Huel today with this exclusive offer for New Customers of 15% OFF with code GREATNESS at https://huel.com/GREATNESS (Minimum $75 purchase). ExpressVPN: Secure your online data today with ExpressVPN. Go to expressvpn.com/darius. Indeed: Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job's visibility at Indeed.com/DARIUS. Shopify: Sign up for a $1/month trial period at shopify.com/darius. Connect with Elsa: Website: https://www.elsamoreck.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elsamoreck/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datingwithelsa Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Amazon offers employees up to £8,000 for education and training, like Juliet.
0:07.0	She's now a trained technician.
0:10.0	And to her, the sound of machinery in need of repair, reminds her of how far she's come.
0:18.0	In two years, she's landed her dream job, providing her with valuable skills.
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1:01.2	Good, gang.
1:02.3	Welcome to The greatness machine.
1:03.6	I'm your host Darius from Shazda. I'm so pumped to have you here with me.
1:05.1	Now listen, the greatness machine were about two things.
1:08.1	Number one, people were living two things. Number one, people who are living their passions. And number two,
1:11.1	those who are creating greatness in the world and doing both of these things despite the
1:14.8	odds against them. Each episode, we're going to feature interviews with game changers,
1:18.3	business leaders, telling us their origin stories, what made them tick, what got them to where
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