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I Have ADHD Podcast

351 BITESIZE | Clutter, Shame, and the ADHD Brain

I Have ADHD Podcast

Kristen Carder

Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education, Mental Health

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 13 November 2025

⏱️ 12 minutes

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0:00.0

back in 2019, which feels like 100 years ago, I recorded an episode after watching Marie Condos

0:09.2

tidying up. Do you remember that show on Netflix? I was so angry with that entire show,

0:14.9

and I recorded like a very fiery podcast episode. It was my fourth episode ever. So if you want to go back and listen to

0:24.7

2019, Kristen Carter, before she knew she was a coach, before she knew she was going to be

0:30.2

working exclusively with adults with ADHD, all of my growth will be on full display.

0:38.1

Yeah, it's episode number four at the very beginning of 2019.

0:42.4

And since then, I've learned so much.

0:44.4

I've learned so much more about, not just about ADHD,

0:47.8

but about trauma and emotional regulation.

0:50.6

And how those three things, ADHD, trauma, and emotional regulation intersect. And so today's

0:57.0

episode is like an updated, completely new take on organization for the ADHD brain. And our ADHD

1:06.7

brains really struggle with organization because it's literally one of our deficient

1:11.1

executive functioning skills. It's in a group, like a cluster group of organization,

1:17.0

prioritization, and planning. And those three things are in this like cluster of, you know,

1:24.3

an executive function that is deficient for most of us. And that's hard. That's real hard.

1:31.5

Not only is this very hard for us, but we also struggle with emotional regulation and task

1:37.6

initiation, which are two extremely important skills when it comes to wanting to organize. And not only that, but many of us grew up

1:48.2

in cluttered, chaotic households. I wonder if you could think back to your childhood and

1:54.5

just remember like what your home was like, what the piles were like, what the shelves look like. Was it hard to find

2:03.3

things in your home? Was it easy to find things in your home? You can also think about like,

2:07.8

did you move a lot? Did you have a parent, like maybe your parents split up or maybe you

2:13.3

had a parent that passed away? All of those experiences that kind of impact where we live

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