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Hustle Humbly Podcast

346: Desperate Agent Do's and Don'ts

Hustle Humbly Podcast

Alissa Jenkins & Katy Caldwell

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.9914 Ratings

🗓️ 23 March 2026

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Feeling a little desperate in your real estate business lately? You are not alone—and this episode is your mindset reset.

 

Katy and Alissa are diving into the behaviors that show up when agents feel pressure to make money… and how those "desperate" decisions can quietly damage your reputation, confidence, and long-term success.

 

From overpricing listings just to win them, to chasing every shiny lead source, to dropping your professional standards, this episode is your honest (and loving) wake-up call.

 

The truth? Acting like a desperate real estate agent doesn't attract more business; it repels it.

 

Instead, we're sharing what to do differently so you can protect your business, maintain your professionalism, and build a career you're actually proud of, even in a slow market.

 

Here's what we cover in this episode:

  • What "desperate agent behavior" really looks like (and why it's so common right now)

  • How overpricing a listing can hurt your reputation long-term

  • Why saying "yes" to everything is actually hurting your business

  • The danger of chasing shiny lead sources when you feel slow

  • How dropping your standards can cost you future referrals

  • Real examples of setting boundaries with sellers (and earning respect because of it)

  • Why consistency beats constant rebranding or "next big thing" energy

  • The difference between being flexible vs. losing your boundaries

  • What to do instead when business feels slow or uncertain

 

If you've been feeling the pressure, questioning your business, or tempted to make decisions out of fear—this is the episode you need.

 

You don't need to be desperate. You need to be consistent, professional, and confident.

Key Quotes & Takeaways

  • "When you act like a desperate real estate agent, you're not gaining business; you're losing respect." Alissa

  • "Confidence audits your business. Desperation just reacts." Katy

  • "If you let your clients run your business, you're doing them a disservice." Alissa

  • "You don't need balloons to sell a house; you need people walking through the door." Alissa

  • "Referral-based business is a slow burn… but chasing shiny objects will burn you out." Katy

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Transcript

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0:00.0

It doesn't matter.

0:03.0

If they don't listen and you list it and it's not selling, it is your fault.

0:08.0

That is in their mind.

0:10.0

You are their problem.

0:12.0

Yeah, you are the problem.

0:14.0

I think that if a national survey is asking me if I consider leaving in the last 12 months,

0:20.0

it's because people are considering.

0:23.3

And so you're actually damaging your reputation. Yeah. One listing at a time. This decision that you want to make is

0:33.8

actually not in your best interest. If this is important to you, then I'm not a good fit for you.

0:41.0

Sometimes referring it out shows your confidence. It definitely shows your competence. Yes. I can't do that.

0:48.8

I can't do that. Would love to, but I can't. Right. You just don't do the whole shebang. I never have. And I ate the cookies. So you're like, no. It was like my freshman 15, but open house version. Hi y'all. Welcome to Hustle Humbley. It's Alyssa and Katie. And we are two active realtors in the Baton Rouge market. We work for two different companies where we should be competitors,

1:12.7

but we have chosen community over competition.

1:14.9

The goal of our podcast is to encourage you to find your own way in business.

1:18.7

So stop comparing yourself and start embracing your strength.

1:23.3

Hi, Alyssa.

1:24.4

Hey, Katie.

1:24.9

Welcome to episode 346.

1:28.2

Desperate Agent Dues and Don'ts.

1:30.9

Yeah.

1:31.5

Mostly don'ts.

1:32.4

Yeah.

1:33.2

Well, you know, I feel like I've been, maybe this will be like podcast therapy for me.

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