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Black Girls Heal

#334: Future Fakers, Secret Emotional Abusers, & Cheaters Do Not Deserve You

Black Girls Heal

Shena Lashey

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.8 • 1.8K Ratings

🗓️ 29 April 2026

⏱️ 32 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

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Summary

In this episode, Shena uses Megan Thee Stallion’s recent breakup to unpack critical relationship red flags, including cheating, emotional instability, and “future faking.” She reinforces that a partner’s betrayal is never your fault, and that patterns like mood swings, lack of accountability, and a history of dishonesty are warning signs that shouldn’t be overlooked. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that you are not responsible for fixing or saving anyone, real love is grounded in emotional safety, consistency, and integrity.

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0:00.0

Thanks for listening to this week's episode of Black Girls Heal. This episode helps you in any way.

0:04.6

Please be sure to subscribe, leave a five-star review, and share it with someone you love.

0:08.9

And if you're ready to go deeper and turn what you're learning about here into real life change,

0:13.4

join us inside the BGH members club. You'll get ad-free bonus episodes, powerful workshees about

0:18.1

every topic we discussed here, and exclusive lessons to help you apply the healing tools we talk about.

0:23.8

You can join today at Blackgirlsheel.org slash members.

0:26.8

And as always, take care of yourselves and we'll see you next week.

0:34.3

My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hook or crook to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there is to bring it out.

0:51.3

This is what compels me to compel them. And I will do it by whatever means

0:56.9

necessary. Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast where we talk about healing our intimacy

1:03.2

disorders and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then

1:08.6

others. Every episode, we will talk about advice you can

1:12.0

apply today to bring unhealthy patterns and grow in your self-work. I'm Sheena LaShaay, Love Addiction

1:18.1

Coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin. Hello, hello, welcome to the latest episode of

1:25.9

Black Girls Heal. This episode is going to be audio-based. If you're on YouTube, you can see that I'm not on your screen. It is because I've had the flu for the last several days and I am just now starting to feel better. I can sit up and walk around, but I'm trying to go slow so I don't push myself and get sick again.

1:47.6

So I'm allowing myself to record this now instead of waiting another day and then the podcast

1:52.6

comes out a day later, especially because today's topic, I feel like it's really important

1:58.5

and timely and I want to talk about it sooner rather than later.

2:03.7

This episode is going to be about Megan the Stallion, her recent breakup and some lessons that I

2:09.0

hope to take from some of the things that she shared that were going on in hopes of helping

2:13.8

those of us who are currently experienced it, who experienced it in the past, just in solidarity, and also to help those of us who are currently experienced it, who have experienced it in the past,

2:18.1

just in solidarity, and also to help those of us who might experience in the future to have a

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