332: RELEASING RESENTMENT

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Christianity, Kids & Family, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 12 July 2016

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Resentment is a poison that builds slowly as it snowballs into extreme disconnect. What starts out as one disappointment becomes a laundry list of all of the ways that your spouse has hurt you, disappointed you, not been there for you, etc. The resentment that you harbor toward your partner can be masked as: Anger Boredom Indifference Withdrawal Disconnect What started out as something manageable now has become overwhelming for you and your partner. Right now, it’s feels virtually impossible to bridge that gap to reconnect. Both men and women experience resentment in different areas in the marriage. Some of these areas of resentment are... Staying home/working outside of the house Having to take care of the household Having to be the provider Always being the one to initiate Upside down priorities (kids, work, extended family, other friends) You now know why you are holding onto this resentment and yet do you know where it comes from? Resentment comes from... Ineffective communication Unvoiced expectations No clear vision direction Fear of rejection In this week’s show Tony and Alisa talk about the negative consequences when resentment builds up in your marriage and what you can do to change that path. EPISODE SPONSOR | He Zigs, She Zags: Get You Communication on the Same Path Remember how you felt when you first met your partner? How close you were? Like you were soul mates? Why because you spent so much time connecting and communicating. Now imagine having that same level of connection and intimacy for the life of your marriage. Become one of those couples that celebrates your 20th, 30th or even 50th wedding anniversary while you both are still completely in love with each other. Grab He Zigs, She Zags today. 046 - Are You Keeping Score? Dear Couples, Rejection Is Crushing Your Spouse Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.
0:04.1	We're being busy as overdone.
0:05.6	Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:11.0	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host along with my beautiful wife,
0:14.4	Elisa, from coast to coast and around the world. Thank you for joining us. It's time to talk
0:19.7	sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call it 858 875663 that's 858 876 5663
0:29.7	In today's show we talk about the negative consequences when resentment builds up in your
0:36.6	marriage and what you can do to change that path.
0:40.4	And Alan Stewart had this to say about resentment.
0:43.2	She said bitterness and resentment only hurt one person and it's not the person that we are resenting.
0:50.2	It's us.
0:51.2	So we're going to be talking a lot about that in today's One Extraordinary Marriage Show, but like we start each and every episode,
0:57.4	we start today's episode with a hug and this week's hug is brought to you by one extraordinary marriages.
1:02.7	He zigs, she zags, get your communication on the same path.
1:07.4	Now, this could be you.
1:08.8	Do you remember how you felt when you first met your spouse,
1:11.8	how close you were? Yet that feeling that the two of you were, you were,
1:13.2	and yet that feeling that the two of you were soul mates.
1:16.0	Why, you might ask?
1:17.1	Well, it's because you spent so much time connecting
1:19.9	and communicating.
1:21.2	Now, imagine having that same level of communication and
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