331: HAVING SEX OR MAKING LOVE

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Christianity, Kids & Family, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 5 July 2016

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Married couples perform both sex and making love. Would you agree? Sometimes it is intentional and sometimes it's because of circumstances. Sex happens when you only have 10 minutes before dinner for a quickie. You only have 10 minutes so it’s not going to be a marathon love making session. But if you are on vacation by yourselves with no kids now there’s no need to just have sex. You plan on making love while away. Making love is probably the easier one of these to understand, the slow and go with the emotional connection. On the other hand issues can arise when you and your spouse are only having sex. Let's be clear before you start to think that this is only about husband's using their wive's... This goes both ways! You may have even experienced this in your own marriage. So, as we dive into what it means to have sex and making love there is a very unique question to be answered... What would selfish sex look or be like for a married couple? In this week’s show Tony and Alisa talk about the difference between having sex and making love and why knowing the difference matters in your marriage. EPISODE SPONSOR | 19 Quick Questions That Will Rekindle Your Sex Life ASAP 19 Quick Questions will allow you and your spouse to get the conversation started about all things related to your sex life. Using these 19 questions gives you an opportunity to have those conversations, to think about your sex life. Take just one or 2 questions a day and talk about them outside of your bedroom, then enjoy discovering each other. Cleaning Up After Sex 3 Reasons Why Sex Isn’t a Dirty Word Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is the one extraordinary marriage show, where being busy is overdone,
0:05.5	romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:10.8	I'm Tony to Lorenzo your co-host along with my beautiful wife
0:14.1	Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world thank you for joining us. It's time to
0:19.2	talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858, 876, 563.
0:26.0	That's 858, 876, 5663.
0:29.2	In today's show, we talk about the difference between having sex and making love and
0:36.2	why knowing the difference matters in your marriage.
0:39.4	And as we talk about today's topic, I want you to think about this quote that says relationships
0:44.7	aren't designed for selfish individuals and that's really you know as we talk about
0:49.1	the difference between having sex and making love a lot of that comes down to selfishness,
0:53.4	and so we're going to be digging into that quite a bit on today's show.
0:56.3	But as we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show,
0:58.7	this week's hug is brought to you by one extraordinary marriage's 19 quick questions that will rekindle your sex life,
1:05.1	A-S-A-P.
1:06.4	And you can find that at One Extraordinary Marriage.com slash 19 questions.
1:10.1	But you know, as we're digging in today's topic topic we thought it was a great time to remind
1:14.5	you about this free resource available to each one of you this resource is going
1:18.6	to allow the two of you to get the conversation started about all things related to your
1:22.2	sex life.
1:23.4	You know, so many couples find it difficult to bring up or even put into words what they might
1:28.6	like to try in the bedroom or what they might have thought about and just don't know how to say it.
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