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Relationship Advice

332: Creating the Love You Want

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.4 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 24 December 2021

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

One of the best things you can do for yourself and your relationship is to begin to understand and practice this one idea. This is the idea that creating the love you want starts from within and does not depend on your current or future partner. Listen to today's show to learn how to create the love you want. In this episode with Dr. Ronald Mann, we discuss relationship advice topics that include: The importance of cultivating introspection and awareness Why you need to stop looking outside of yourself for love Using meditation to improve your relationship What to do if your partner is not willing to make positive changes and grow The importance of selflessness in your relationship And much more! For more information on our guest, and for the episode links visit: https://idopodcast.com/332 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Quip: Good health starts with good habits. Quip makes it easy, by delivering all the oral care essentials you need to care for your mouth. Go to GETQUIP.com/IDO, and you’ll get your first refill FREE. Native: Aluminum-Free & Paraben-Free Deodorant. Vegan & Cruelty Free. save 20% on your first purchase by visiting NativeDeo.com/ido20 or use promo code ido20 at checkout. Like A Kitten curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 20% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/idoOR enter code ido at checkout. LetsGetChecked is an at-home testing company that makes it easy and confidential to take an STD test from the comfort of your home. Visit letsgetchecked.com and enter ADVICE at checkout to get 30% off your entire order! Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Music

0:28.0

Hey guys, hope you're having a wonderful day or evening or night wherever you're listening to this show.

0:35.0

Got another great show for you today where I have a conversation with Dr. Ronald Mann.

0:41.0

And Dr. Ronald Mann has a extensive background and lots of experience in helping others awaken to the true realization of their deeper self on both a psychological and spiritual level.

0:55.0

He practiced as a clinical psychologist for more than 30 years and helped junior and adult golfers as a sport psychologist and has provided leadership training and executive coaching world ride in addition to writing six books, one of which was an L.A. Times best seller.

1:15.0

And today Ron and I talk about how to create the love that you want and I really enjoyed his kind of different perspective, a more spiritual approach.

1:27.0

Ron has been a dedicated meditator for 40 years, so we talk about meditation, how to change yourself in order to change your vibration and attract the things that you want in life.

1:41.0

If that's a partner or a new partner or kind of to create the change with your current relationship, really just a lot of great insight and tools on how you have the power to create the love that you want.

1:56.0

I think I talk about it a lot on the show with with my guests and it can't be stressed enough because if you're listening to this, you're you're wanting to improve your relationship and maybe you're frustrated with where it's at that your partner is not doing the things that you want them to or they're not dedicated to learning or maybe they're listening to this with you, which is great, but you still don't have to wait for them.

2:21.0

You can create the love that you want or if you're single, you can create the love that you want and really starts within us, like a lot of things in our life.

2:31.0

And I think that's an important realization that I'm constantly trying to internalize myself. It's easier said than done like a lot of these things, but we're here trying to do that work.

2:44.0

So as always, I appreciate you tuning in, listening to the show, telling your friends and family, really appreciate it guys. Enjoy today's show.

3:01.0

Hi, Ron. Thanks so much for joining me on the show today.

3:05.0

Today we're going to dive into the extensive work that you've done in the field of love and relationships and we're going to talk about how to create the love that you want.

3:18.0

And I thought a good place for us to start would be to have you share with our listeners a little bit about the work that you've done and certainly the comprehensive study and what led you to create the love factor inventory.

3:35.0

Sure, you know, it's my pleasure to be here and I appreciate this chase very much.

3:40.0

My background in terms of my work and I did a lot of education, I have masters degree in education, I have a PhD in psychology, I practice as a licensed clinical psychologist for more than 30 years.

3:53.0

I had private practices in Beverly Hills, Northern California, Sacramento, and I transitioned out of the mental health world and got into the corporate world and managed care took over and pretty much rooted as a business.

4:10.0

Along the way, I began to specialize with death and dying and had a spiritual awakening with Elizabeth Kubler Ross many years ago.

4:21.0

That got me on the path of yoga and meditation and so I've got kind of a twofold path there, one is a licensed clinical psychologist doing traditional psychotherapy with kids, families, couples, adults.

4:38.0

And then I got involved with deep meditation through the teachings of Parmahansa Yogananda and Kriyoga meditating for 40 years.

4:48.0

My first book was an attempt to share with the public and professionals what I had learned through this direct perception and the book has called sacred healing integrating spirituality with psychotherapy.

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